I am bipolar, on down cycle messy as a turnado forgetful enough to cause many problems, the man i want to spend the rest of my life with is an extreme minimalist cleanfreak and gets instantly exhausted by my clutter and messes it doesnt help i currently have no job and live with 5 extremely mentally ill people of wich only one cleans, and i ofcourse forget to or have no time. my derpyderpderp dopy forgetfulness it can be so bad i will forget to breath somtimes, i will forget whole conversations, what i am doing whats going on where i am and we have no idea what to do. he also mostlikely has depression but he doesnt want to nutup and go see the doc. help? help? help? we are strong enough to get through this we just need help on where to start.