Thank you very much for your input Darlene.
I don't mind he has the condition and the prolems that come with it. But when it goes to promiscuity, it's really a big no.
I want to know if there're people who has bi-polar and never been promiscuous?? They might have had the thoughts but were able to control it not to cheat?? I guess if I could see the hope in him that he will be able to control himself not to make the same mistake again and it would be easier for me....
Thank you!!
Hi,
my name is Darlene and I am bipolar. I am 43 yr old woman.
I can feel your pain in the words you write.
This is difficult. You see, often when bipolar people are manic, they make choices that they would never make if they were stable.
Promiscuity is one of the problems that can go along with mania.
Usually if this is the case (mania), a person often feels VERY remorseful and ashamed of their actions afterward when they are no longer manic.
I cannot say for sure what is happening in your situation, as I do not know this guy.
I can only share my experience.
For me there is mania and depression.
When manic, I feel like superwoman, like I own the world, I am the smartest, sexiest, most beautiful person around. My mind is whirling and I decide to do things that I normally would never do.
When depressed I just want to die, hate myself, and regret the stupid choices I made when manic.
Usually with medications, it can be balanced out, and a person can live a more normal life, and make more sane choices.
I find that this is a very difficult illness to live with.
The choice you have to make is a very difficult one, and I do not have an answere. I hope this brings you some insight
Sending hugs,
Darlene.