Well, I have to say you didn't make me feel very good after reading that! I was wondering if I'd have to be on bcp's for the rest of my life!
It's been 5 weeks now since the vasectomy and he went back in today to get the semen tested. We shall see what they say. He's healed nicely, no complications. I sure hope this is all it takes!
I don't know how long you should wait but you can always ask you doctor. I know they will want to test his semen to insure that that vasectomy took.
I would like to add that I am the creation of a vasectomy (performed 10 years before I was conceived) and low fertility (my mother was told she would probably never have children, she has two :))...Everything is possible.