Okay i got the depo shot 4 months ago stop taking it because of bad side affects. So i stop it about a month ago. I haven't had my period i barely spotted for like a day or two but no sign of my period at all. Would it be safe to say i can have sex unprotected with my bf still? I know i should use the condoms but it hurts when using them and I'm allergic. I just dont want a baby and i read stories online how a lot of women cant get pregnant for a while after the shot because its still in them. I have the b.c pill too. Should i try taking that? Would it mess my cycle up even more?