Hi and welcome to the Chiari forum.
We do have a list of Drs the members here have been to and liked, not all Drs on the list may be true Chiari specialists, but it is a place for u to start researching Drs to find the right one for u.The list is on the forum and in the health Pages, here is a link-
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/list?cid=186
May I ask y u r not going to use the same NS that did ur DD's surgery? I do not understand y she had surgery and u did not, it is not the herniation but if u have a CSF obstruction and how it is affecting ur overall health.
Know u r not alone, and we will try and help u with ne questions u may have.