thanks everyone i have one sister and she tries to help but she has three kids of her own and dealing iwth a son that has diabetes. so much is going on and i am trying to calm down and stay stress free. i am thinknig its time to start racking up bills. screw it anymore. what can they tke from me um nothing cuz i have nothing.
Hi, I am so sorry u r going thru all this all the while trying to recover...u still need to rest and take it easy all this stress will make u feel poorly.
U r only 5 months post op..right?...well it is normal to have some symptoms post op as u heal, but add all the stress u r under and it is no wonder.....
And next...for ur Dr to say ur cured...that is bunk!...there is no cure only treatment to help pain and to restore flow and help slow progression.
U may want to get another opinion.
Hang in there
"selma"
So sorry for all you are going through! Having so many things going on at the same time you are dealing with health issues is just so stressing! Hugs to you. Hopefully you can find help to make sure your head is okay! I was found to have a leak nearly a year after my decompression and it took a while for someone to believe me that I thought I had a problem. Chiari seems to be a never ending process. Surgery number two that fixed the leak only led to a third emergency surgery and now I am paranoid and trying to recover again. Just having decompression surgery does not mean that everything is perfect and over.... each surgery is different and you just don't know what may be happening, I had a bovine patch that did not work out for me. Just don't take NO for an answer, you don't want bigger issues if there is still something wrong. I hope things start looking up for you!
You have quiet a lot going on. You need to step back. Have you brothers or sisters that can help?
You can not in my opinion go on dealing with the family illness issues and your own illness and hope to remain sane, this will eventually bring you down and who is going to take on your role then?