my child masterbating,and more

[joeace]

i am lost and dont know what to do i understand that kids will do it but what has me lost is that my baby girl who is 6 has been doing it and also doing oral with her cusin who is the same age as her and i just found this out from my exwife and i found out that it frist happend when she was 3 i feel like this is somthing that had to be shown to her or she had to see it please let me know what u think

[ohcalcutagirl]

u say HER COUSIN, is this a boy that she performs oral sex on

EITHER way, children that age have very little sexually active nerves areas
so it would seem someone taught this to the child BUT u could open a can of worms like Pandora's Box by making this a legal matter and I would suggest for the time being ABSOLUTELY DO NOT DO THAT, as it will not help your daughter and that is where u need to concern yourself

so, ex wife says she has done this masturbating since 3 yr old?  does that mean u did not live with this child for the last 3 years? OR did ex say child has been doing oral since age 3 ?

u might try asking a dr with the stipulation that they not make a report to police so u may have to NOT give them info first as TODAY if u live in certain places like the U.S. people can go overboard and will in many cases. so if u can get Psychological professional help with out law enforcement; I would suggest it

have u examined her; does she still have a hymen?

good luck

[margypops]

children who behave like this have very often seen it and are copying,if it happened when she was 3 year old was no one supervising so it didnt happen again ?

[Fiestylian]

Hi, I had a similar experience with my older son many years ago, he was taught a game by a child 3 years older than and he then went and played this game with my neighbors child, who then told her mum, luckily I was friends with the neighbour and she approached me, I sat down with my son and asked him calmly about this game! He told me another child had taught him the game and I explain that it wasn't a game and that his private parts are private and no1 is allowed to touch him down there and he isn't to touch any1's privates either. Your child needs to be sat down and asked where she has Learnt this and then explain to that it is not appropriate, this needs to be done calmly as you don't want to make a big issue of it or make it seem dirty as this may effect her in later life. I hope this helps, keep calm when you talk to her and try not to make her feel like she is dirty and naughty, u need to find out where this has started from!