PLEASE HELP............My 9 yr old daughter has really bad seperation anxiety still sense day one in kindergarden and is in 3rd grade now.It never went away,and my heart breaks everyday when i get her up for school.The schools been on my case bad for her attendence.I never keep her home unless she is hyperventilating bad,vomiting,and just freaking out.I tried it all,paying her $10 a day to go without crying,going with her and sitting in the school parking lot all day in my car so she knows im there(until the principal kicked me off the property during school hrs,he mentioned his child needed a good spanking to know he had to go to school)I didnt see the harm,i was in my car the entire time,right in front of the office.I never spanked her even once,never punished her either,and even all the teachers,and our church brag how well mannered and well behaved she is,she is usually the favorite student of every teacher she knows.ImTRULY BLESSED TO BE HER MOTHER.I tried even giving her my half carot diamond ring to wear and feel special,no parents gives a .5 stone diamond to a 8 yr old to wear at school,and giving her a cell phone to keep on her even though there not aloud on school grounds,so she knows if she really needed me i was able to be reached asap.Anyway you name it and i have tried it.I live in tennessee and have no family,my father hung himself yrs ago,my mother is bi-polar and really hard to be around alot,my sisters are drug addicts that lost their own kids,and in and out of jail,i got 2 of them and i cut them out my life and my kids lives when i finally relized they liked who they were and had no will to change.They were not good people to be around my kids.I have my 9yr old and my son whos 1 yrs old,they have the same father,who is also my husband of 10 yrs.No abuse or drugs are in their lives.Im a homemaker and their daddy is the full time worker.I have no extended family either,so its always been my husband and i with our kids sense the day they were born.Her first day of school in kindergarden was in florida,the elementary was huge,i thought it was a college at first.It got so bad with her even fainting from hyperventalating that we moved out of state to tennessee where the schools are so small and just more relaxed feeling.Then came 1st grade,days added up staying home,then the school got on us.I broke down everyday after i walked her to class so she didnt see me.she never road the bus,we always drove her to warm up to idea of school.2nd grade came,i made her go,i tried everything,school got court got involved for her absenses.They think she wines and i am just lazy and let her stay home.ITS NOTHING LIKE THAT,we wake her up,we keep happy tones around her,we joke and make her giggle,we try it all,and i only give it when it turns really bad,she pukes everyday,she cant breath at night knowing shes leaving in morning,she faints from breathing to fast,my kids are my life,next to my husband they are all i have as family.the schools think im so bad and abusing and its the oppisite.i force her to go everyday and only give in on the worst of days,im lost,im so sad,im willing to do anything it takes to make this stop.i dont enjoy what i got to do everyday and the school acts like their wanting the best for her and im hurting her keeping her home.i dont want this,it kills me seeing my entire world in so much fear and anxiety and i cant help her,and I NEED HELP.GOD PLEASE FIND ME HELP ON HERE.