My 8 year old step-daughter is wetting herself approximately 2-3x a week. She does not wet the bed at night. She has recurrent UTIs and we see an increase in retention issues when she has one, but she wets herself even when she is infection free. Her doctor says she "checks out" medically but hasn't helped up further than this. She tends to wet herself when she plays outside (even after emptying her bladder before going out.)
A bigger concern is that she doesn't seem to care about the ramifications of smelling or wetting herself in school. She is not upset and does not seem to care that it is an issue.
What can we do?