My son is 3, he's almost 4, be 4 in a couple of months, I believe he has autism, but the DR wouldn't test him, so in the process of finding a new dr for him now. But his behavior is getting so much worse, the last like month or so has been terrible, I'm losing my patience and my ability to spend time with him, because he's a terror. He just wants to sit on my lap a lot of the time, and even when he does, he's not listening to me, or he's not paying attention. He hits me and bits me and scratches me. He even hits himself, unfortunately he doesn't talk (partly why I wanted him to be tested) so it's hard getting him to explain why he's frustrated.
I take him outside 3-4 times a day, for a good 30 minutes to an hour each time. He sleeps a good 10-12 hrs at night, I've tried time outs, spankings, talking to him, it's ruining the relationship between me and my partner, he thinks he should be spanking him harder, I don't and have probably come to my son's rescue a few times, he'll listen to my partner more than me, but last week or two, he has been whining none stop, you ask him to play with his trucks, and he'll whine about it, you ask him to take off his shoes and he'll whine about it, doing daily tasks is hard especially in the house, when we leave the house, he's fine, barely does anything wrong, He's good in restaurants and the grocery stores.
I have a lot more patience than my partner, but mine is wearing thin, he has his good days, rarely anymore, but still has a few of them. It has taken me probably 20 minutes to write this, because he's not been listening to me. I'm a stay at home mom with him, but I'm also pregnant.
Me and my partner have been arguing a lot lately, and I don't know where he saw it, but he's now obsessed with Power Rangers.
Please Help.