Jake is 5 years old. He is the youngest of 7 kids; Jake has always been quiet and shy. He does like to have pictures taken and is a sweetheart and very outgoing with us, his family!
But when it comes to school, His biggest shyself comes out. He went to full day prek last year. He did graduate and even volunteered to say the pledge of allegiance with his principal at the graduation ceremony.
However, it wasn't unusual for him to not want to go to school or to leave him with the school counselor, kicking and screaming. I had to go to the school to take diabetes supplies to my newly diagnosed Juvenile diabetic but had to hide coming in and out of the school so that Jacob wouldn't see me.
This year, is no different. He is now in Kindergarten and you would think that he would have grown out of it, but NO,
Today for example, he started to tell me he didn't want to go to school just as I was preparing his lunch. (He goes to pm half day Kindergarten.) I told him horror stories about being grounded to his bed for the rest of the day and night. All he said was, "ok", He cried all the way to the bus (4 houses away) and then would not get in the bus! I was at the steps falling all over myself telling the bus driver, "He might go to school", We are staying with my sister temporarily and so my nephew offered to drive us there. That means a ride in his souped up sports car! Well, I was excited to go, but Jacob didn't want to. What?! No, Jacob didn't want to.
When we got home, I drilled him, frustrated I asked, "Why?" He said he didn't want to do his projects and didn't want to write or learn letters. "Thats what you DO in kindergarten!" If you don't learn those things, you don't go to first grade!!"
"Can I go to my bed now?" He was crying a bit but then suddenly a few minutes later I heard ....quiet. He fell asleep.
I seriously think he is a morning person. But he was in full day preK last year? We had a similar episode last week and the week before that. Church Sunday School is the same story. The stress about absences at school frighten me and the thought of him repeating kindergarten over this makes me want to do something NOW! What are we to do?