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My 6 year old son is urinating everywhere!

I have a 6 year old son who for the past 8 weeks has been getting up during the night and urinating everywhere, but the toilet! His usual peeing place is only a few feet from his bed, but some nights he will urinate over furniture and carpet in other areas of the house. When I question him over it, he claims he didn't do it, or he doesn't remember doing it. the past 2 weeks I have being putting him in time out for peeing everywhere, but this isn't working, and the problem is now occuring on a nightly basis, and its so bad that my entire house stinks of urine. I have found out that he has been getting ullied at school, and have taken steps aong with the school at getting this dealt with, and have been told by his school that the bullying has stopped, but his urination everywhere hasn't. When I ask him if anything is wrong, he says there isn't, and if you ask him why he wees over the floor he just replies "cause". Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop this really filthy problem, as I have concerns his 4 year old brother will start doing it too, and would rather stop the problem before that happens.
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1006035 tn?1485575897
I would give him some time to recover from the bullying. It may take a while for him to get fully back to normal, and that's ok. Don't punish him for it and be very gentle about it. It's great that you made the bullying stop. It's up to us parents to stand up for our kids when they can't. Even though it has stopped I would go the next step and get him a counselor or therapist to help sort through his feelings. At 6 he probably doesn't really understand what happened and is having a hard time processing it.
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377493 tn?1356502149
Two things still come to mind.  Is he a deep sleeper?  He may only be partly waking up in order to head to the bathroom and be sort of dreaming he is there.  I have heard of other children doing that.  And perhaps he just can't hold it long enough to make it all the way.  If he is half asleep that would really explain the lack of memory.

Way to go mom on being so involved in what is happening at school and dealing with the bullying.  Also great to hear that there is zero tolerance.  Still, if he is feeling lonely that can be almost as bad as the bullying.  So I wonder about friends.  Does he seem to have kids he plays with?  

I still highly doubt this is intentional.  I think I would take him to the Dr. and discuss there first.  Best of luck.
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I have thought about the possibilty of it being sleepwalking, but have no idea of how to go about stopping it, I know kids can go through phases of sleeping walking, but I haven't heard of people urinating whilst doing it. I was bullied at school myself, so I fully understand how he feels, and I have a very active role with his school about dealing with it. His school is only small (250 students), and the children are monitored closely, but even some kids slip past the teachers behaviour wise, when they are dealing with other kids. The good thing is that his school has a zero tolerance on bullying, and the punishment these kids have received, has certainly stopped them from doing it again, my son has been told by the teaching staff to stick to areas that are constantly monitored by staff, to prevent it happening again, and I always take over the monitoring part from the school gate to our car. My son isn't one for opening up, but if you do it right you can get everything out of him, without him even realising it, but when it comes to this urination problem, no matter what tactics I use he wont open up.
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134578 tn?1716963197
I agree with adgal about both the possibility of sleepwalking and about either continuing to be bullied or simply having been ostracized for being a "tattletale" about the bullying.  I'd take the bullying possibility very seriously, there have been some pretty tragic occurrences lately.  Who really thinks the kids involved will tell the adults who are supposed to be watching the situation everything?  Not me.  Any possibility of changing schools?
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377493 tn?1356502149
You know, I know it's not super common, but I have to wonder if he is not sleep walking a bit?  A lot of young children still pee the bed at this age, so it makes me wonder if this is not a version of that?  He thinks he is in the bathroom but in such a deep sleep he doesn't realize it?  Also, if he has been a victim of bullying, just because the bullying has stopped now doesn't meant the fear has gone away for him.  

First off, I don't think I would punish him for any of this behavior.  He is still so young, and I doubt he is doing this just to misbehave.  I think I would probably consult a specialist along with his Dr.   I would first find out if there was any medical reason for this (ie: he is in a deep sleep and can't quite make it to the bathroom in time), and then I would talk to a child behavior specialist to try to get to the root of things (perhaps the bullying hasn't completely stopped, or he feels ostrasized by other kids).  Just my two cents.  Whatever you decide, I wish you well.
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