My child cries all da time

[Lipi]

my daughter is two month 10 days old..shes a premature baby.she was born on the 7month.She keeps on crying all the time for no reason at all.she stays quiet for a few moments if shes with me or her father but otherwise she doesnt go to anyone else.she cries everytime she sees anyone except me and her father.WE consulted the doctor, he said she doesnt have any helath problems, shes completely fine but he couldnt tell why she cried like that.i mean she cries horribly!..screaming and all that!!...when i was pregnant i went under loads of mental stress,family problems and other stress..is it due to that??..i had mental breakdowns too when i was pregnant.after five ten minutes of screaming and crying suddenly she stops breathing and then we gwt really scared.but after sometime she becomes normal and starts crying again!!...please please mplease help me!!...why does she cry so??i am in desperate need for help...please do response to my query....thanks

[girlybuff]

Try wearing the baby in a sling.  This way the bay can feel you and still rest.  SOme infants need much more contact.  You might want to try white noise as well... a hair dryer, a vacuum, anything that vibrates like a bouncy chair.  God, I have to say that the inventor of the bouncy chair is my hero!!!
I know it's got to be horrible but hang in there.
PS, it really doesn' t have anything to do with how stressed you were during pregnancy but if you are stressed now, she is definitely picking up on it.
Also, maybe it's gas or colic?
  

[SeriousSam]

Sometime music helps, singing, if you hold her and rock dip your knees a little bit while rocking to the side.  This is really not that unusual.  My oldest daughter and I had lots of nights when she was little when I rocked her back and forth for half the night.