My wife and I have two beautiful daughters, age 6 & 4 1/2. They are both healthy and unremarkable in regards to social, physical and emotional development. Their kindergarten and preschool teachers have never given them anything but normal developmental reports come parent-teacher conferences. Recently, however, my 41/2 year old daughter has been showing signs of potty training regression. She has been potty trained for almost a year and a half now, and my wife and I are running out of ideas, and we are VERY, VERY (did I say very?) frustrated. Last summer we were able to send her to day camp and she never had any problems whatsoever.
There have been no changes in her preschool schedule, no tensions at home between any family members (other than the typical sibling rivalries). There have been no discernable stresses that we overtly see that would be causing this behavior. Whenever we are about to go anywhere, the bathroom comes first. The supermarket, school, the playground, it doesn't make a difference whether she went an hour ago or 30 minutes ago. We encourage her to at least try before we leave the house. Last night there we awoke to a child will urinated saturated pajamas at 5:00AM in the morning. She is normally fine in the evenings. She will frequently wake herself up in the middle of the night to successfully go to the bathroom without any problems and go right back to bed. But then on 4 different occasions today, she wet herself in her clothes. Each time today (unfortunately each one was with less and less patience) we asked her why she didn't use the potty. She just asnswered "I don't know". She has not complained about any burning upon urination so I do not think there is any urinary tract infection. I don't know what bothers me more, the fact that I don't know how to help her, or the fact that I don't think she's listening to what we're saying to her, time and time again. She can defintely get preoccupied when she's working on a "project" of hers, such as coloring or playing a game, and I understand that it is normal to have regression accidents when she is learning new life skills. Today she was "one-for-five", in baseball speak. My wife and I need some coaching...PLEASE!!!!!
- Eric