My 4 year old is afraid of alot of things but the extreme reactions he has worry me. Haircuts are probably the worst. He isn't afraid of the scissors or the clippers, it's having the hair on him. Sets him over the edge. Screaming, crying, vomiting, flailing. He wears the cape thing but if hair touches his face, he freaks and haircut is over. We've been to the places with the car chairs and the movies and games at least 5 times and they have never been able to finish his hair, so I just do it myself which is horrible for both of us. Another thing that sets him off is hand dryers in public bathrooms. I understand he's afraid but the extreme reaction he has just can't be normal. He also does not adjust to a new environment well which worries me as he will start Kindergarten next year. Will they just let him scream, vomit and cry all day? That's what he's done in other things we've tried (gym child care, sunday school, etc.) How can I help him through the fear reaction and make it less extreme?