thank you ladies. i agree. i feel better
Good heavens! Who would tell you something as silly as you need to take your daughter to daycare while you stay home! Don't listen to them - listen to your heart. You'll never get these years back, they are precious, and lucky you that your daughter really wants to be with you.
The only thing you need to be concerned with is providing her with enough stimulation, especially socialization opportunities, which is the best thing a good day care setting has to offer. You will need to supplement this since it won't necessarily occur naturally unless you live in a place with a lot of kids around all the time.
I say keep her home until Kindergarten! The people who are pressuring you are crazy. There's nothing more important than spending time with your child. She'll learn more from you one on one then she will in Preschool. 3 years old is too young to be on her own.