My daughter (6) has been taking her father's things for the past 6 months during her visitation with him. Her dad and I were both remarried before she turned 3. She has 2 step sisters (7 & 10) at her dad's and one half brother (2) in my home. To be specific, she was focused on his cell phone at first -- the problem is that she would take it, hide it and wouldn't tell anyone where she put it. Two cell phones later and various forms of dicipline, (i.e. Time - out, taking things away, grounding her from fun events, and even spanking (which we learned DOESN'T work)) she started taking other random items in her dad's home. Things like his keys, his mustache trimmer, etc..and hiding them. At first we thought she was doing it for attention. After the first 3 months, it almost seemed like a habit -- like, she had to do it once she got there. The crazy thing is -- she does't touch my things or her stepdads. The good news is that both our households communicate very well and stay consistant in our message to our daughter when it comes to her behavior. We are united and are really trying to understand what she is going through. We speculate many things: jealousy, not enough attention, acting like a spoiled brat...etc. She has learned the art of playing us against each other with made up stories on both sides. When she is with me, she may say something like, I didn't get breakfast today (with a sad face) or she may say at her dad's house, my mommy didn't feed me dinner. It's like she is playing both sides and thank goodness we do communicate, because we know better. We had a few sessions of couseling but I'm not convinced that it helped. I have pleaded, begged, and told her to stop that behavior and that it's unacceptable -- her response is that she will try - as if she can't help it. We are confused and really need guidance on what to do next. I have talked to the pediatrician and got a few names for child therapists. Thank you.