Hi,
The first day of my last period was Jan 28 - Feb 2. On feb 8,I had sex with guy 1 unprotected, he came inside me. The next day Feb 9 I had sex with guy 2. He pulled out but we did not use a condom. On Feb 14, I went to the gym and when I came back I had cramping and light bleeding for about 3 days. I didn’t have sex besides the dates on 9th and 10th, and supposedly ovulated the 10th. I went to my first ultra sound April 1st, and they said I was 7weeks 3 days along, which tracks back exactly to the 9th when me and guy 1 had sex.
Who is likely to be the dad? I know I probably should do a paternity test either way, but I’m just trying to put my mind at ease. I know it was wrong to be so reckless and I do feel awful.
What concerns me is how close the dates are and that I have been using the pull out method with guy 1 for years and we never had a scare, but he also has never came in me during or close to ovulation (but we have had sex and used the pull out method during this time). Guy 2 is fertile as he already has a son by someone else.
The ultra sound and also the time of implantation bleeding makes me feel safe in believing that it’s guy 1, but because there is no 100%, I am feeling stressed and depressed about the whole thing. I feel maybe exercise could have made the bleeding come early, and I’ve read that dates can be off by 1/2 days. In my situation, this makes a huge difference. Guy 1 wants it to be his and believes it is since he came in me but the other guy didn’t.
What are the odds that guy 2 can be the father?