Conception date. . . . .

[pretty_xoxo_giirl]

Don't judge me!

I'm extremely stressed out. :(

Ok, so here is my situation.
I have 2 lovers, and I had unprotected sex with both of them and now I am pregnant.

My LMP was on May 7th

Lover #1 I had sex with on May 13th, 1day after my period ended. pull out method.

Lover #2 was on May 21st/May22nd we have been hooking up for years and I've never got pregnant. My calculated conception & ovulation date was on May 21st. When I approached him with the news he claimed he had a vesectomy. I asked to see the paper work but he declined.

I'm so confused. Who is more likely to be the father? Am i stuck being tortured with this dilemma until I have an ultrasound?

Answers?

[AnnieBrooke]

I was not talking about your menstrual period, I was talking about your menstrual cycle.  A cycle is from the first day of bleeding of one period to the first day of bleeding the next period.  If the dates you named are all day 1 of bleeding, your cycles are 25 or 26 days long.  Many calculators use a standard 28-day cycle to try to predict ovulation.  That would not be correct if used by a person with a 25- or 26-day cycle.  Your ovulation would be 14 days before the next period, or about day 11 or 12 of your cycle.  Not day 14.

[pretty_xoxo_giirl]

My cycle only last about 5 days.
I guess I'll just have to wait it out and see.

I have an appt with my medical provider in 2 weeks.

Thank you for taking your time to address my concerns.

☺

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, if these are first days of your periods, from these dates is appears that your cycles are either 25 or 26 days long (from one period to the next), meaning the next one would have been due on either June 1 or 2.  Has any doctor ever told you that women ovulate two weeks before our next period, not two weeks after the (first day of) the last period, and not halfway in between?  Many conception calculators assume a 28-day cycle, and for a woman who has one, she would be expected to ovulate at day 14, neatly in the middle.  But for a woman with a 25- or 26-day cycle, she would be expected to ovulate at day 11 or 12.  That would put your ovulation date in May as being around May 18 or 19, not later.  This has obvious implications, since you did not sleep with the second guy until the 21.  Eggs (not fertilized) last only 24-36 hours, and sperm can last as long as 5 or 6 days.  I'd say guy 1 is more in the picture than guy 2.

[pretty_xoxo_giirl]

Regular. I really good at keeping track, I knew this next expected on was due on or near June 4th. They are ALWAYS on time. Never had a problem.
LMP for 2015

May 7th
April 11th
March 17th
Feb 19th
Jan 25th

[AnnieBrooke]

How regular are your menstrual cycles?

[pretty_xoxo_giirl]

My conception date is the exact date i had sex with lover#2...

Guess I will just have to wait it out & see.

Yay! For more sleepless nights

[pretty_xoxo_giirl]

Est due date off of LMP is Feb 11th

[K_Madrid]

Yeah honey only a DNA test can help you out there. Since you had sex with both of them at such a close time its almost impossible to tell. You can try asking your doctor to see what they say but to be 100% sure you'd need a DNA test for sure. A friend of mine went through a similar situation but we knew who the father was because her conception date was like 4 days before she had sex with lover#2 so we knew lover#1 had to be the father. Good luck