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Please help so confused!

I had my baby in 2012 I am now in a terrible position with my ex as he is denying being the dad, now I'm doubting myself with an upcoming DNA! Basically we spilt up I got terrible drunk slept with a guy didn't use protection but took the morning after pill this was on the 24 th March, had a period (early than usual but told this could happen with the morning after pill) round the 1/2nd April got back with my ex had sex the 7th and 13th April early hours so possible 14th April! Then I went for my dating scan on 22nd June and was 12wks 3 days ! My baby did come early as my waters leaked but wasn't in labour I was introduced ! I feel awful about actually sleeping with the random guy but now doubting myself even though I've worked it to be my exes a million times but Google doesn't help! Just needed some solid opinions! I will accept my karma but feel
Awful as led my ex to believe it was his ! Thanks for anyone's help
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Yeah that's what I thought I did get the morning after pill the morning after and what I remember had a normal period and slept with my ex the 7th and 13th April which calculates it to be his but I just am unsure with how your body works which conception etc
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My delivery date was 6th jan but I was early due to a tear in my waters I just don't want to unleash a can of worms and ruin every ones lived before I have to I know it's my own fault but I have to think of everyone in the situation
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12584065 tn?1436320514
Agreed^ dates seem a few days off to me.
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Thanks you I will have to be honest just confused as when I work it out i work it out I conceived the 15th April which would be my exes !
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If u only slept with other guy once and was 23rd of March I'm presuming then it makes no sense because u conceived the 19th March? By the dates u have given
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12584065 tn?1436320514
The best advice I could give is to be strictly honest with both men. That way if its not the person u thought to be, theres no shock in the findings. No one can tell you who it is but could only give you an estimated guess and thats not very helpful. My guess would be the march 24th guy according to ur scanning dates but just my guess. Good luck.
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