Who's the father of my unborn child?

[kate_888]

Alright, I'm new to this website but I need some opinions from anyone who feels like commenting. I recently found out that I am pregnant, I find out in two days how far along I am.. but here's the catch, my last period was Feb 1st-6th, 2012. I have sex with my boyfriend every single day, unprotected, sometimes more than once. I had sex ONE time with my ex-boyfriend on Feb 11, 2012, unprotected. I missed my period that was supposed to come on Mar 1st, 2012. I have good cycles almost exactly 28 days. I'm scared that maybe it's his?! Everyone makes mistakes but I really hope the baby is my boyfriends. So I'm wondering if anyone has opinions on the chances of the baby being my ex-boyfriends baby?? HELP, please :/ I could really use some good opinions!

[AnnieBrooke]

The pregnancy could not have been from early or mid-December if you had a scan February 20 that told you 7 weeks 6 days and a note from two days later that says 8 weeks 2 days.  It sounds like you conceived around January 10 or 11.

[Kimbear44]

Feb 20th was my first ultrasound 8 weeks on feb 22 I went to the emergency room because I wasn't feeling good I have the Hosp paper that says 8 weeks 2 days March 24 I was dated at 12 weeks 2 days may 18th 20 weeks 1 day I begged my midwife to send me for a dating scan on sept 8th 36 weeks & 2 days I asked the tech to look back at my first sono papers she said everything matches up with dec 28th being my last period is it safe to say this pregnacy isn't from late nov early to mid dec ????? If I were to give birth now does this change my date of conception or my due date PLEASE HELP I feel like I'm putting my body through extra stress because of my thoughts I feel labor is near and im scared for my life

[AnnieBrooke]

It all sounds like Guy 1 is not the dad.  It doesn't even matter if the period was a period (though I don't think it sounds like it was just some random bleeding), go by the first ultrasound.

[ohmymommy]

The above data is correct. On Feb. 18th when I went to the doctor, The nurse asked when my last period was I told her Jan. 9th, then a lab technician did my ultra sound she said looks like we at are about six weeks, my doctor read the results from that day and gave me a due date of Oct 16th ( that's where I got that I was 5weeks and 4 days from).

For the most part my ultrasounds have been consistent, When I went for my anatomy scan at 22 weeks my OB informed me there's a possibility that we would move the due date a week (Oct. 9th) However, she still hasn't changed it. All my measurements have seemed to be on target with my due date. I did notice on my last ultrasound at 32 weeks 3 days my baby's head was measuring at 34 weeks 3 days while the rest of his body ( arms, legs etc.) measured at 32weeks 1 day. My dude date has yet to alter, but I have a appointment next week where I can confirm with my OB that everything is on target.

[AnnieBrooke]

I'm just repeating your data because it's so many posts back:

Guy 1 Dec 31 - Jan 4
Period Jan 9 -- "or bleeding that wasn't a period"
Guy #2 Jan 21
Negative hpt Jan 23
Positive hpt Feb 10
Ultrasound on February 18 said "about 6 weeks"

You first said the ultrasound February 18 was at about 6 weeks.  Then you said it was at 5 weeks 4 days.  Did you get this exact count from the doctor, or did you count it yourself based on when your last period was?  Also, when you got the ultrasound on February 18, did they tell you your due date based on it?  If not, when was the first time you were given a due date, and was it from an ultrasound?  Has your due date stayed consistent over the pregnancy every time you had an ultrasound?

[ohmymommy]

Hi, I have another question. Don't know why I can't let this go, just pure agony waiting until the baby gets here to do a test. Anyways, what are the chances that my period on Jan. 9th wasn't actually a period? Because also when I went to my first visit on Feb. 18th (5weeks 4days) I had a sub-chorionic hemorrhage , and maybe the bleeding I had on Jan 9th-12th came from that. I am asking this because I am not totally sure of when I started my cycle in December. I know for sure that it was after Dec 7th and before Dec 16th.  But not knowing for sure opened up (in my mind) a lot more possibility that it could be Guy # 1 (Dec. 31st- Jan 4th).

I know that this all could just be me being disappointed for allowing myself to be in a situation like this, cause before then in December/January I had never slept with  2 men nearly months close and the first time I do, I become pregnant. Just crazy odds. I know this feeling probably won't go away until my baby boy is here but it does help me getting outside look from someone who doesn't judge so excuse me as this is my last time annoying you lol...

What are your thoughts from my above situation, please? Thanks.