Need Help Please

[pmh13]

Hi, I am being a great friend to this girl, she says she is 15 weeks. it is 2/19/2013 right now. But I am just wondering if I could possibly be the father and her date is wrong. Here is what I know. We made love December 11th, she had an ultrasound on December 20th and the ultrasound read 4 cm last lmp was 5weeks 4day on the ultrasound. I am wondering if it a baby would be able to be detected at that point. She went in for her 12 week ultra sound on February 13th. The top of the page read 11.8cm (sorry) I don't know how to read it. But she says she was 15 weeks today. last week the babies heart beat read 158.
My serious question is that is she sort of hiding the truth from me or if she did have sex with another guy on november 16th through the 23rd would it be his. She said she had light bleeding November 20th.

I really care for this girl, even if it is not mine I would do everything to help her through this. But I just don't know if there is a possibility it could be mine, if it is and she is scared to tell me because out relationship is so new I will privately plan for it anyway.
Thank you so much for any advice.

[AnnieBrooke]

ps -- If you made love December 11 and it was the only time you did, and on December 20 they saw an embryo on the ultrasound, she was pregnant before December 11.  It takes at least three weeks for an embryo to get big enough to show up on ultrasounds, and you are talking about a time span of only nine days.  Some embryos haven't even implanted by then.

[AnnieBrooke]

If you love her, be there for her.  She'll get a bumpy enough ride from the world, and will appreciate you for it.  I've often joked with my husband that any man could seduce any woman by genuinely liking and appreciating her children.

[Rissa14]

Sorry it's not possible.

[DelainaN]

Just kidding I read that wrong, "________" <--- (name ) YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER

[pmh13]

Thanks for all the posts, I am in love with this girl, but realizing the posts it's time to step back and do what I need to do and just help and support her. Thank you

[DelainaN]

She could be lying about the due date?

[pmh13]

Why would she get a twelve week ultraound last week then? I am just wondering if she maybe scared to tell me.

[lousil]

Im 12 weeks and conceived dec 6 so if she concivied  dec 11 theres no way she is that far along. So if she is its not yours. Sorry

[pmh13]

thank you

[lanismommy]

Oh and I'm 16 weeks , got pregnant on November 7th , so it not possible

[ladybug114827143]

Yep sorry, definetly sounds like it's the other guys.

[lanismommy]

The dates don't match up . If it was your baby she would only be 3 weeks pregnant when you guys went to the doctor & it would be way too soon for the baby to be detected . I highly doubt that this is your baby . Sorry

[cgoodwin]

It is unlikely that the child is yours. In fact, I'm pretty sure it is not possible