dont know who my baby's father is?? I need answers

[Meemee98]

On February 4 th I was fertileI had sex with guy 1 and on February 8th I was fertile and I had sex again with guy 1 on February 9 th I ovulated and had sex that day also with guy 1 on February 17 th I had sex with guy 2 and February 18 I had sex with guy1 and the. On February 23 thru the 29 th I had my period on March 5 I had sex with guy 3 and on the 6&8 also with guy3 then sex with guy1 on the 12 th of March and the 18th of March I'm now 7months pregnant and I don't know who the day is my due date is November 29 Cani please have answers ???

[AnnieBrooke]

If your doctor has access to an ultrasound done earlier than your tenth week, his guess of March 5 might be useful.  But if you didn't have an ultrasound any earlier than your tenth week, the  margin for error still applies, meaning you do have to test with both guys.  Guy 3 might have an edge but this does not rule out Guy 1.  You need the DNA test.

[AnnieBrooke]

I think you cannot rule out Guy 3 or Guy 1.  You would have even had sperm from both guys alive in your system at the same time, on March 12.  It would be nice if your ultrasound were able to say that March 12 is too late, since that would rule out Guy 1, but unfortunately with your first ultrasound being in your tenth week, you just cannot be entirely sure.  If I were going to bet, I'd bet on Guy 3, but I wouldn't bet very much money.  

Sorry, but you will need to do a paternity test with both Guy 1 and Guy 3 to get a definite answer.

[Meemee98]

Guy 1 and guy 3*

[Meemee98]

So guy 2 is ruled out completely correct ?? It's only guy one and guy 2 I need to worry about

[Meemee98]

Also what do you mean by March . 12th is to late when would you say I would have conceived I thought maybe it's was guy1 being that we had sex 2 fertile days and the day I ovulated .

[AnnieBrooke]

If you read what I wrote above, you will see that a tenth-week ultrasound is not entirely pinpoint in its information, you can't use it to say that you ovulated on a specific day.

[AnnieBrooke]

In other words, there is a time bracket that is big enough to suggest you might have ovulated around the time you had sex with one of the guys or the other.  It would be nice to be able to rule out March 12, but the ultrasound you had isn't accurate enough to do that.

[Meemee98]

Okay I had a doctors appointment yesterday I asked my doctor about the time I conceived he told me around March 5th do then who would I be looking at as a possibility but regardless I'm at going to get both tested

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, when you say "Guy 1 was in February the beginning unprotected and guy2 wasn't February at the end on the 17th" I don't think that is what I was after.

I just want to know about the person you had sex with on March 8 and the person you had sex with on March 12.  

Got that Guy 1 was on March 12 was unprotected. You said in your first post "I had my period on March 5 I had sex with guy 3 and on the 6&8 also with guy3."  I take it that you had sex on March 6 and 8 with Guy 3.  Was it also unprotected?

Unfortunately, tenth-week ultrasounds are not pinpont reliable for determining when you ovulated and conceived, they can be +/- 5 days.  So let's look at the reliability of your due date based on your ultrasound.  Have you had lots of other ultrasounds?  Did the due date the  ever get changed from information from a later ultrasound?

[Meemee98]

Yes it went from the 29 of November to the 22nd of November the last time I had a ultrasound I was measuring at. 29 weeks instead of 28 so I was actually a week ahead according to the doctor yes both was unprotected ... So being that I had sex with guy2 in February 17 you saying I can rule him out ?? Guy3 March 5..7..8.. Unprotected guy1 March 12..18.. Unprotected also ..

[AnnieBrooke]

Let's rule out Guy 2, since he was in February and not March, and you did have a period.

Now, let's see how useful your due date is for trying to figure this out.  When and how did you get your due date?  Did the doctor do an ultrasound and then based on what he saw on the screen, tell you a due date?  If that is how you got it, what week did he say you were in your pregnancy at that time, and what day was the ultrasound?  (Like, 7 weeks 1 day on May 24 or whatever).  If your due date wasn't given to you by an ultrasound, how did you get it?

Was the sex with both Guy 3 and Guy 1 around March 8 and 12 unprotected?  Do the guys know about the situation and are expecting to do a DNA test?

[Meemee98]

Guy 1 was in February the beginning unprotected and guy2 wasn't February at the end on the 17th and guy3 was in March March 5 to be exact unprotected and yes I got my due date from my doctor I was 10weeks and two days when I went that was on May 5 so is guy 1 still a possibility since we had sex the day before I ovulated and the day of I ovualted

[Meemee98]

March 12 yes unprotected