Hi. 1. Please concentrate on the 2 wonderful children you have now.
I've experienced a painful situation too. I married in my late 30's.
I was prepared to have a child,but my husband said NO.
Now, I'm in my early 50's & have gone thru the change of life. Menopause.
So I still feel very young,but it's too late for me to get pregnant.
Please get some help for your sad feelings. Your sons & your wife need you. Pamela
thank you for your insight. I just feel so helpless and that no one cares.
We cannot get to the healthy age you are at without reflecting on our lives..
When we are younger and actively raising our families, not much time is given to reflection, it comes and goes, and thoughts usually get pushed down and life and responsibility just continues...
Something happens in our later years, with men the lowering of testosterone, that makes us highly reflective and sad in most cases. Then we get embroiled in reliving the choices that in all honesty, can not be changed, and we get sadder and are many times ashamed of our choices and think of not living any more...
I would like to see you contact your physician and tell him/her what is going on and how you are sinking into depression and let him/her suggest a course of action for your health...Many many men go through what you are going through, and these years of your life do not need to be spent in pain and sadness now that you are finally at that age that you can reap the well deserved rewards of loving and raising your wonderful family.
I am wishing you the very best
M
Great news this week! I have located a legitimate clinic that specializes in tubal reversals. They will look at my wife's medical records to confirm that a reversal could be done. This clinic would not perform the reversal if we were doing it for the sole purpose to conceive but they will consider us a candidate for reversal if the request is religious or personal. Hoping to arrange this in the first quarter of 2014. We are definitely not doing anything until the holidays are over. This is an answer to my prayers and wishes!!
You sound 100% better. So happy to hear your joy. Have a wonderful Holiday. Your friend. Pamela