I hate my life.

[kmb23]

For about 14 months now ive had the most amazing girlfriend ever and shes absolutly perfect in all aspects of life. She thinks im the most amazing boyfriend and told me that all girls should want to have a guy like me to treat them right. This summer before school starts again weve been together non stop basically and just been with eachother for 24/7. She thinks that being with me latly 24/7 has changed her view on the relationship and she loves me but not in love with me and this is a girl that said shed spend the rest of her life with me, with plans of marriage and buying houses and what not. She recently has just been scared because she wants to love me and she wants to have the feelings to back it up, in a sense she feels smoothered and i dont know this because she never just told me until she said recently that we need a break. Now with that how it is and her being all confused and her needing time to figure everything out, i need to ask you what i should do and i would also like to know what she is going through emotionally.

[kmb23]

I know im young and ive been told time and time that but i just cant see myself not being with her. I mean she stopped going to college so that she can transfer closer and it just *****. Thank you for the support though atleast someone has made an attempt to make me feel good about myself.

[angelastevens02]

14 months is a long time but sometimes women need time to sort out their true feelings. maybe she's going through some emotional problems that she needs to work out for herself before she can truely be in a loving relationship. you're so young take time to enjoy being single for a awhile. if she truely does love you she'll come back. it's like the old saying that if you hold a butterfly too tightly it'll die but if you let it fly free it will come back to you with all the love in the world.