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wat to do

Im 35 weeks and  2 days pregnant and always feel like im just a waste of time to people... i always wanna cry and there are even days where i just want to die wat can i do to not feel like this ive felt like this for 10 years  
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1110049 tn?1409402144
Oh I am so sorry for the things you have had to cope with.  I can understand your pain.  Bless you. Perhaps after the baby is born you will be able to get back into counselling.  

Yes it is always difficult to talk about how we feel.  Sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger.  It must be so difficult for you to have little communication with your daughter.  

Keep posting here, and at least it is someone to talk to and who understand about depression.

Take care
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I used to be in counseling but stopped going because i had to move and been so  busy trying to take care of everything else and havnt been able to get back into counseling its also been hard talking to people about wat bothers me... since my dad died ive had communication issues and when my ex's mother took my daughter from me everything got worse....they stopped letting me talk to her and seeing her and they are making her hate me....it makes me feel like i failed as a mother
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1110049 tn?1409402144
Well I really think you should be telling your doctor what you have told us.  Why do you think nothing has been done about it?  Have you told the doctor exactly how you feel?  They cannot help you unless you say exactly what is worrying you?  Why do you pretend you are OK when you are feeling so depressed?

Doctors are there to help.  They need to know the exact facts.  Please don't bottle things up.  Do not be afraid to ask for help.  Your baby is due soon, and you need to be 100% fit to car for a new born child.  

Nobody is a waste of time.  Don't think that of yourself please.  I can't believe you have been like this for so long with no help.  

That dear little baby is going to need their Mum, so please, please talk to somebody about how you are feeling, and get help with your depression.

Take care and keep in touch.  
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Nothing gas been done about it...... so i just usually put on a fake smile and make it look like im ok
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1110049 tn?1409402144
Hello, I am so sorry you have felt so bad for 10 years.  What has been done so far to alleviate your problems?  What has your doctor suggested?  
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