Think you need to speak to your gp/doctor
Sounds like you are having a really bad day. I hope it gets better. If this is a chronic situation, then perhaps the boyfriend can be broken up with to reduce that frustration and hopefully things will get better with your mom. Feeling fat and ugly stinks. Been there depending on what is going on in my life. I try to get active. Working out makes me feel better AND look better. So, I just start exercising. Then I make sure I'm taking care of my skin and my grooming. I look at my clothing options and see what I can tweak. I also really try to work from within and focus on the things that make me feel good--- my hobbies that help my self esteem and things like that. I try to surround myself with positive friends who build me up. And your teeth are maybe something you can talk to your mom about. Braces? They have payment plans (looking into that for my son).
Well, feel better hon. good luck
Oh, and I just noticed the heading of your post, if that is indeed true, please do tell your mom that you are feeling this way and that you might need some emotional help and support. There are suicide hotlines to call if you ever become too overwhelmed and contemplating dangerous actions. peace
She's feeling the same way as well...she doesn't have money for therapy or anything. .
How old are you hon?
I'm assuming that you still live at home with Mom?
How do you know she's feeling the same way? Has she talked to you about that?
Who else could you turn to for help? Is there another trusted adult, like an aunt? Neighbor? Friend's parent? You definitely need to seek some help, and if your Mom cannot facilitate that happening, then you need to find someone who can. It's not your job to worry about your Mom's issues, either emotionally or financially sweetie, and I hate that you have that extra burden weighing on your mind when right now you should be 100% focused on getting YOU feeling better.
Keep posting, let us know what you decided to do, okay? Have you even TRIED to talk to your Mom about how you're feeling? Does she understand the severity of how you're feeling?
Hi, im 16 & yes ive tried talking to her but all he says is to pray. I honestly have nobody else. She has alot on her back & i dont wanna make things worse ..
Aw sweetie. It's so awesome that you're thinking of your Mom, but hon....your issues need to be addressed. That has nothing to do with her.
PLEASE see what you can do. Could you maybe ask for mom to make an appt with your family doctor, even if you have to tell a little white lie and say you're not feeling well? Then, at your appt, you can confide in your doctor (or nurse).
I'm thinking of you.
I already did bu like always, we don't have money. .idk what to do anymore. My stomach also has been feeling really weird xc
Sweetheart, there's always a way to get help, even if your Mom cannot afford it. Where's your Dad honey? Is he around? Do you have any aunts you could talk to? Grandparents? Friend's parents? There has to be someone you can reach out to....and tell them the same thing you told us here.
I feel so badly...I have a 16 year old daughter and I would be devastated to know she was suffering and reaching out online because I didn't help her like I should. You have to keep trying okay? When was the last time you went to the doctor? Have you ever been to a planned parenthood type clinic for any reason? While they mostly deal with sexual/birth control type needs, I'd bet if you went to one, and explained the situation, they would help you.
My dad is.never home...& i cant talk to him for crap...we have no family here in vegas, & im just so....ugh.