So recently i made a mistake and had unprotected sex with an x girlfriend, once about three weeks ago and then again a few days ago. after having sex i did not clean myself up, fell asleep, and then when i woke up i worked out heavily (ran a few miles, became very sweaty efc) in the same boxers. after the workout i showered and then noticed some red irritation (very tiny red dots, almost pin sized or smaller) on my penis, a few on the head and then one or two on the shaft near hair follicles.
i told myself it was just some irritation most likely, and since then the red dots on the head of my penis have almost completely disappeared (can barely be seen with a digital camera image)
but right as this was happening the ones at hair follicles seemed to have gotten worse and now one of them looks like a genuine case of follucitis ( white tip pimple with hair coming out of it, looking blocked , etc).
there is no real pain, or at least nothing that can be ruled out as mentally created
so does this sound like a case of herpes or just irritation / follucitis?
i plan on getting tested either way i just need some piece of mind