It is a misconception that people with autism are not affectionate. I've actually found just the opposite to be true, they are quite loving. My daughter LOVES hugs and kisses and always has. I know plenty of other children on the spectrum who are the same way. I'm not entirely sure where this myth came from.
Thank you both for your answers. He is already receiving speech and occupational therapy and both therapists told me that he is not a typical autistic because he is very opened to physical contact, likes to give and receive kisses and hugs, smiles/laughs when we do something funny. I guess I just keep on looking for other explanations to his behavior.
I will most likely visit a neurologist just to be sure he's not having seizures.
Any other suggestions you might have for me are welcomed.
Once again thank you for your help.
Hi there,
Any child in the autism spectrum disorder is affected in three different areas like social interaction, behaviors and interests and communication. Your child seems to be having all the symptoms which are expected to be seen in autism.Epilespy is not associated with any problems in behavioral or social skills. These areas of development are normal in a patient with epilepsy. Few other differentials of autism are Rett syndrome, childhood disintegrative disorder, pervasive developmental disorder etc.A complete history; clinical examination by an experienced neurologist may confirm the diagnosis. Do write to me again.
Best luck and regards!
I have a 6 year old daughter with autism who goes through episodes like this. My suggestion is to give him what he is seeking. Hold him tight and give him hugs. The deep pressure is soothing. Do you have any weighted blankets or vests that he can use? We also set up a therapy room in our basement where she can go to calm herself. It has a swing just like the one she uses at occupational therapy and she loves it. Swinging is very soothing. You could also get a little tent or enclosed area for him to go when he gets overwhelmed. It does not sound like he is having a seizure, although some children with autism do suffer from seizure disorder. We also got our DD a service dog who helps calm her when she is upset. He has been a life saver.
Generally you get a diagnosis from a developmental pediatrician, so my suggestion is to speak to this doctor about your concerns and they will point you in the right direction from there. Is your son receiving speech and occupational therapy? If he is discuss this behavior with those therapists; if not I would start therapy.