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Penis not getting hard!

Hello Sir, My Penis is not getting hard. I very much upset & worried. I can't satisfy my wife :(:(:(. I'm 31, Please help me...
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hi sir ...hope u r fine sir i have a problem with my penis ....while i am doing sex with my gf my penis not become hard .....or u can say tight ..after 30 mint it become tight....why it is so .........because of tension or any thing else ...and sir i also want to tell u 1 thing i was using steriods for body building like deca an testo ...i was using from 3 years non stop.plz help me .....
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Hi remar,

It's yajiv again back. I have consulted with Urologist/Andrology specialist. He said nothing problem in me. I also gone under some diagnoses, so by looking at those reports, he said nothing problem in me. He also tested my penis by asking me to cough.

But, He looked at my tight foreskin and he asked me to go for circumcised. Meanwhile I was trying to stretch my foreskin at home and noticed that foreskin is connected to my glands, So this is the reason I'm unable to retreat my foreskin even from my childhood and also even if my penis is soft. It makes my huge pain with tears when I try to retreat. I can't insert my penis into vagina even if it is very hard. It is very hard to insert because my penis goes very big and I can't insert into small vagina, my penis bends when I try it forcefully and it also makes me pain with tight foreskin with connected glands. What should I do?

I read in some of the sites & reviews that going for circumcise is not good and also read that even with tight foreskin we can have sex it-seems.

Remar please guide me with your suggestions. Whether I should go for circumcise, How to detach my foreskin with my glands & How to stretch my foreskin. Please suggest me. I'm going very very dull day by day :(

Thanks & Regards,
Vijay Kankanala.
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HI Yajiv, Did u get a solution to ur problem. Even I am facing the same issue. If yes please help me.
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I have one last thing you could try its a c**k ring, I have one, its a hardwear ice, if you can get a soft erection then this will take you the rest of the way, if like me then you should get some real good boners, just google hardwear ice and that will take you to there site.
One last thing you will need to be shaved down below.
Good Luck
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Thanks for reply...

I never had erection whenever required even when I'm with my wife. This situation is also for me from childhood. I thought it gets solved once married and if I'm with girl. I have erections only in the early hours in the morning around 4-5 am but not much hard enough and erection goes away immediately when I wake up see.

Please help me remar.

Thanks & Regards,
Yajiv.
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OK its not down to god, and nobodys punishing you, unless you know something we dont.
There are to ways you can go 1 is drugs and 2 is herbs and hormons, herbs and hormons is far the cheapest way, just google this title, DRUGS VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, its a post of my own and it was and still is my way out of ED as I'm now in recovery, all I can ask is that you read it and if you think it will help then try it.

And your stress, you really need to get to the bottom of and find just where its coming from, then work way of getting over it, try relaxing more.

Get out and exercise, walking and swimming are the best all round exercises you can do.
Look cant help with a doctor as I'm in Greece.
Good Luck
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No, you are not being punished for anything. It sounds lie the problem could be stress. You did have surgery but, you just started having this problem recently, so I kind of doubt that's it.
I would recommend seeing a Urologist.
Your wife probably loves you very much too and she will stay by your side until you can get this figured out.
You really need to get your stress level down and quit thinking you are being punished.
If you see a Urologist and there is nothing wrong I would recommend counseling to help with your stress.
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