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i'm scared :(

Hi. I am really concerned about a problem i have begun to face now that have become sexually active. i would have to admit my sexual drive even from just few months back was very good. i had frequent hard erections.
but sadly i started masterbating late. and make things worse i masterbated twice daily for nearly 8 years.
well the issue which i am facing now is that i tried really hard to get it hard enough for my girl friend and no matter what she tried, it just wouldn't cross a certain mid-erection like state....
this is really worrying me. i have stopped masterbating and am actually considering taking suldafenil so at least give some support to my relationship. would this be a good idea or would it just effect my liver more?
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I'm a doctor actually and have been getting mixed responses for my problem. That's why I was left with this last resort.

I gotta add though I am at day 12 of being sex free. Have been avoiding seeing provocative stuff. Haven't even seen my li'l john even. But naturally aren't. I supposed to have morning wood like before? I don't feel much an urge. Alot of love but little drive :(

I don't know. I really love my girl and really wanna please her but I'm just ... I don't know ... I really need help!!!
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give it a rest for awhile. build up some sex driveeee !
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I don't know why society considers masturbation such a great thing. Yeah its healthy but there are some ramifications like psychological issues build up causing penis not to get fully hard with a woman.

Your penis is too used to your hand stimulation. Just leave self-pleasure alone for a couple weeks and you will begin to feel a differrence in your erections.

Part of your problem is psycological and the other problem is you trying to begin a new habit (having real sex)...

See how hard it is to switch from one habit to another, i.e. years of self-pleasure to real sex?

Stay away from masturbation right now until you feel you can balance out the (2) different ways of pleasuring your penis.

You don't need to take any suldefenil.
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