My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now. Without a doubt, he is crazy attracted to me, finds me irrisistable, and can't keep his hands off me. Say's I'm the best sex he's ever had, most passionate too. I'm not worried or insecure about this. Before he met me, he hadn't had sex for a year, since his last girlfriend, I respect that a lot. I've been the first girl he's been with in a year. (he had mentioned to me when he was younger didn't really like sex. and has had problems in the past with girls to get hard, or he comes too fast) Since we have been together, he has struggled not to come with in 3-5 minutes of sex. Or when we have four play, he pleases me so much, (great with his hands, fingers, mouth..amazing) and I think during that time, he had been getting hard, and when I can't take it anymore and want penetration, he is still soft..when the whole time, it seems he is really turned on by my moaning and everything else..?? He says he is really turned on, then why is he soft?????????? He is a great guy and wants nothing to do but please me and visa versa! I can give him a great ********, there's not problem with him getting hard when I do that, but then he needs to come within 3 minutes and there it goes! So, he gets frusterated with himself, focus's soooo hard not to come, then gets very soft. He tries and tries to get it hard again but it continues to be the same inevitable battle. Poor guy, he has gone through some lengths to help this..he purchased one of those rings you put at the base of the penis to prevent coming..then he buys from time to time those sexual stamina pills, they work, it gets him up for sure, but we don't wanna rely on chemicals in our sex life.. We need help. I appreciate so much you taking the time. And it is so important that I get a real answer and not just a random person's opinion. HE SAY'S: "I don't know babe..it's just all in my head..gosh! what's the problem?! I'm just soo focused on not coming then I get soft! I want to please you so much, what is wrong with me?! The poor guy doesn't even know what's wrong with him..even he's in the dark, so where does that leave me, in the darkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE NEED HELP! What can we do??? What else can we do? WHAT????!
Thank you .