I have not personally gone through IVF yet, but I have heard a lot of people talk about having discharge (even bloody discharge) and still come out being Preggo! so not sure exactly what it means, but I do know that it could be a good sign!!! Good luck, i'm hoping this one does the trick, when do you test?? I'll be praying for you that you get your BFP soon! : )
Asking4aMiracle,
What does Bump mean?
bny,
I test on wed the 14th. Thanks for your prayers.
bump, makes the question move up to the top of the page, so that more people can see it and hopefully help you out and answer your question! : )
exactly what bny807 said, and even though i do not have this, i am starting my IVF cycle saturday and am trying to get as much info and as many experiences in that i can =)
Oh, I C. Thank You so much for that. Asking.
no problem!! Good Luck, ill keep you in my thoughts and prayers, let you be holding your healthy new baby this time next year!! =)
Asking,
Thank You. Legs Crossed for you. And so you know, so far what I have found it is normal. WEW.... Thank goodness.
to think, the things we have to go through!! =X
LOL....realy. I will be happy to awnser any questions you have. When do you start?
i start my stims this Saturday, the 10th. i was really nervous but i think im slowly getting more excited, even though i have to jab myself with shots
I had a huge fear of needles before our first cycle. Now it is nothing to go in drop my pants and let my hubby stick me....LOL...that sounds bad....sorry. Anyway, I still don't think I could do it myself, but you will get used to it real quick. The most important thing is to remain positive. It will be hard at times, but try.
yea, hes going to give me the ones that go in my backside and im going to give myslef the ones on my stomach, im still a little uneasy about BUT i didnt feel the trigger shot! and its about the same, same needle, we will see! i just want to get this all over and have my 9 months of WONDERFULY pleasurable misery!!
That's right. Just keep your eye on the goal. There are times when the progesterone ( the ones in the backside) just seam to be getting to be too much. And I just tell myself I am going to have to make bigger sacrafices then this when the baby is born. SO I just close my eyes and tell him to get it over with. It is over with and I can move on with my evening. It won't be so bad, just gets old sometimes.
yep, not a day goes by that i dont picture my miracle in my arms (i always picture taking the carset out of the car, or picking him/her up, peaople asking the age, holidays, family photo on the first birthday, i know im wierd haha) anyway, ive been now, because i live in vegas and people are NUTS, i happen to get rear ended the other day, anyway, now when i drive, i always picture, how would i drive with my baby in the back seat. really helps me not get road rage (im bad at that), its amazing!!
LOL.....we do the same thing. Hubby and I always talk about when we have our baby we will haev to take him/her there or here. Always looking at baby clothes and planning what theme we want to go with. All those things....LOL....It's funny. I have 2 teens from a previous marraige and still acting like this...LOL...It has even rubbed off on them. They always talk about when the baby comes what we will do and all that.
as long as im not the only one =) i am one step past you, maybe this is what makes me weird, we already have the nursery set up, the theme done mind you its not complete, but its getting there. have the carseat and stroller set, have the glider chair and ottoman, DH was taking tools out of my hands to put it all together, it was funny. i said a while back i need to take some pictures but i havent!! we have the rainforest theme, the bedding is the fisher price rainforest set and the crib, changer and dresser all match, theyre white. i sit in the nursery all the time, sometimes pray, sometimes cry and sometimes fall asleep, the same things ill be doing once my baby is here haha =)
That's great!!!! It's good to be so positive. I'm sure the baby will love coming home to such a great room. I have a few things and some maternity clothes. But that's about it. I realy have not felt too much like buying anything just yet this time. I lost my baby around X Mass and everything I got was based on the fact I was preggers. I even got a statue of a pregnant woman. I am thinking about taking it out and placing it in my room, kinda as a good luck charm.
oh im sorry to hear that, i didnt realize you lost one, that is my next biggest fear, my first is getting a negative, and a m/c comes in next. i dont know how i will handle that, i just hope i wont have to! i would take it out! well we bought the stroller and carseat becasue we really liked the pattern and they change them so much, he said lets get this one. so we have that one, everything else was hand me downs before i knew i couldnt get pregnant, as far as we knew, we were putting too much into it and we just needed to relax. my DH best friend has a 3 year old and when he was a year and a half, they divorced and moved and i got anything that he didnt need, fit, or they didnt want. so i have tons of baby boy clothes, blankets, diaper genie, walker....you get it. i have some clothes that my friend gave to me a few weeks back because she wanted them out of her house so she wasnt temped to have another so, im a bit prepared haha....my hubby will come in sometimes and put his arms around me and say 'i know' he has no idea how much i love him!!! hopefully this will be the miraccle month, for both of us!!!!
I'm sure this is my cycle. Everything went so well. But at the same time I am scared to believe it right now. We haev decided not to even tell anyone this time until I ma past the first trimester. Everyone was so upset and we felt so guilty last time.
It sounds like you are set!!!! I'm sure your hubby knows you love him. Look at what you are going through to have his baby! He has to know. I'm sure you and I will both have our babies this cycle!
im happy to see you so positive like that!!! i pray this is it for you as well!! we had decided for that too, not tell anyone till the second trimester EXCEPT my mom, we wanted to surprise his parents because even though they knew we were talking about it last year, the last thing they heard was that we couldnt do treatment as we had no way of paying for it. since then i got this insurance at my new job. well like i said we were going to surprise them, for a few reasons, first, its the first grandbaby and first baby on his side of the family in 19 years, second, his parents are the type to ALWAYS put in there, are you sure your ready for this big of a step, and maybe you should do this first or that first. well they came out from oregon and visited in april and of course seen the nursery. his mom is SOOOOO excited, i was in heaven!! she had the biggest smile and was asking all kinds of questions and asked when we would know for sure, and that we better call.....the heaviest weight was lifted off my shoulders! were so happy!!! but now if i dont call her, shes going to call me to find out.
That's good you have their support. I is very important. It makes such a difference. it has been so hard not telling anyone what we are doing. We even had to leave my niece's B Day party and go through a drive through car wash to do my shot once....LOL....
So, your insurance covers it? Thta's great! Where we are insurance won't cover fertlity treatment at all. We sold our house for the first try and now we are using my hubby's bonus and our tax return. The good news is we have enough saved now for 2 tries. So in case we need it. And I got 3 frosties, so that will lower the expences.
yea its nice knowing that they are excited and it will be a surprise not a shock. thats funny you had to leave to do your shot!
yea my insurance covers everything 100% but $5,000 lifetime max limit for diagnosis/prognosis, and $5,000 lifetime max for meds and $15,000 lifetime max for treatment so we might be getting close to our max after this time, i might be able to do 1 FET if i dont happen to get preggo