I was told to wait until after first ultrasound....My DH is "itching" for a "scratch " too...its been over two months and I just miscarried at 8 1/2 weeks. I had a D&C on Thursday and was told no hanky panky for at least 2 weeks!
I would wait until your 1st ultrasound. :)
I was told the same thing as Helen....my RE stated that DH and I had to refrain from sex during the 2ww.
Congrats on your BFP!!!!!
I have heard sex cant cause you to M/C. DH and I have not had sex for over 2 months. Driving me crazy, and I still m/c. Had my d&c Friday at 8wks. My RE told me the reason we couldn't have sex during the stim process was due to the ovaries being enlarged. There is a possibility the ovaries can twist with to much "action" if you know what I mean. As for the sex during the TWW period and after, I don't know. My ob told me once, if a m/c is going to happen, sex or anything else was not going to prevent it. But if you find the answer let me know. I'm not bleeding or cramping after the D&C and we are dying to do the NASTY.
My clinic told me no sex for the 2ww although for women with previous m/c many ob's recommend no sex till 2nd trimester.
Congrats on your bfp!