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[Roborshunice]

Well my beta is in it's a BFN and i dont know why

[Roborshunice]

Aunt flo came for me and i had appointment but i chicken out

[Kricket212]

I have my Beta tomorrow & believe it will be negative also.  I am going to talk to RE about starting another cycle right away.

[Roborshunice]

Sorry to hear that all i can think about is what could i do different if i go another round

[gabbagale]

mine was negative too!

[Roborshunice]

It's Wed. im having brown spotting i guest auntflo is coming and they told me to call last ivf auntflow didnt come until a week later this is really different

[April162010]

it came today 5/12...aghhhhh

I had that brown spotting on 5/4/ and 5/5 and I was happy because my period  was 1 week later.....I guess the brown spotting might have been extra blood in my system...

this is just the natural way... i am not sad but it was a good ride...lol after all this years and i forgto about it because my husband and I decided to live our lives without kids and then this last 2 weeks were crazy for me... tx god i didnt say anything to my hubby....

good luck to all of you...

remember this guy in NYC is only $3,000 for IVF  
http://www.newyorkfertility.com/

[Roborshunice]

I WANT TO TELL EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU STRONG LADIES THANK YOU FOR THE SUPPORT AND THE GREAT NOTES ONE PERSON SAID WE DESERVE TO BE MOMMIES ONE DAY YOU ARE EXACTLY WRIGHT I HAD MY TURN AND I DO HAVE FOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILDRENS 3BOYS ONE GIRL AND THATS WHY I ACCEPT THE BABY DUST IS FOR ONE OF YOULL THIS TIME AROUND AND LAST TIME BECAUSE I HAD MY TURN I WANTED TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD BECAUSE I FINALLY MARRIED MY FIRST LOVE AND I MADE A DECISION TO TIE MY TUBES BECAUSE THE GUY I WAS WITH FOR 11 YEARS WAS ABUSIVE MENTALLY AND PHICALLY  AND I THOUGHT I WILL NEVER GET AWAY FROM HIM BUT I FINALLY DID AND MY PRINCE CHARMING CAME AND WE HAVE OUR KIDS BUT WE DONT HAVE ONE TOGETHER SO THATS WHY I TRIED IVF AND TWICE IT DIDNT WORK SO I DONT KNOW WHAT MY NEXT MOVE IS BUT ALL THE PRAYERS AND BABY DUST FOR ALL THE LADIES TTC AND ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT NEVER HAD THE  EXPERIENCE OF BEING MOTHERS.
SO I WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU'LL TO CONTINUE AND DONT GIVE UP BECAUSE THE BABY DUST WILL COME AT A TIME LEAST EXPECTED. THANK YOU'LL THANK YOU'LL THANK YOU'LL

[kahlua141]

I am sorry...i had a chemical in sept and march..the feeling *****..just try to take care of yourself and DH...it will happen..somehow...i try to just believe..

[mhv]

Very well said, which is why after 1 m/c FET and 2 BFN from FET's, and thousands and thousands of dollars later, (with donor eggs) i will not do another cycle that isn't a shared risk/refund program.

Jamaciababy, is there any anyway you could come to US?  i know it would be a hassle, but maybe you could do monitoring in jamaica and come here for retreval/transfer?  There are several awesome shared risk/refund programs (up to 100% money back).....i am thinking of traveling over 300 miles 1 way to do my next round.... and they are very awesome with working with out of country/state patients.

Good luck to each and everyone of you/us in our quests to have babies!!!

[April162010]

I post this somewhere else but it might help to understand a little bit. I know it hurts a lot when is negative...but here it goes:

the embryos can be of good quality but the important thing here is the implantation stage.
Nature is not always very competent! After IVF, it’s only about 10%, which means that only 10% of embryos implant successfully to become a baby.

I had 2 failed IVFs in 2008 and 2009.
doctor transferred 4 good quality embryos in 2008...negative
doctor transferred 3 good quality embryos in 2009..negative

wife health: perfect..no problems at all  (except i was 38y/o in 2008) all test done..they all perfect, my own eggs.

husband health: perfect..no problems at all..all test done..they all perfect ( husband is 5 years younger than me)


I bougth the test in both occasions and i did it 8 days after my transfer and they both come out negative so when i when to see my doctor for the blood test i knew i was not pregnant but i still have 10% of hope...at the end were negative and no explanation.


My doctor was an expensive -harvard doctor in midtown manhattan. he didnt even see me after my second failure. but he send me a bill of $15 dollars that i was due..( after expending $ 30,000)... + he charge me $ 30 for the photocopies of my paperwork...............can you believe it?

NOW:

Embryos are graded according to their appearance and rate of cell-division and good quality embryos are those which have 4-8 cells, of equal size, with clear cytoplasm, and with few fragments. These are called Grade A embryos

Pregnancycan be determined by a blood test , which measures the level of the hormone, HCG ( human chorionic gonadotropin) only 10 to 14 days after the transfer. For many patients, these 14 days are often the longest days of their life !


No tub baths or swimming for 48 hours after replacement
No douching or tampons
No intercourse or orgasms until the fetal heartbeat is seen on ultrasound, or the pregnancy test is negative
Do not undertake excessive physical activity such as jogging, aerobics, or tennis
No heavy lifting
You may return to "work" after 24 hours of bed rest (getting up for bathroom and meals only) and one to two days of light activity.



We all need to remember that embryo implantation is a very complex process, which consists of a series of phases in which the embryo has to appose and attach itself to the maternal endometrium and invade into it.

1>) First, the embryo has to undergo further development, till it reaches the blastocyst stage, when it hatches from its shell, known as the zona.

2.)The hatched blastocyst then needs to implant in the endometrium, and the three phases of implantation are known as apposition, adhesion and invasion, and occur during the period of time known as the implantation window.


Its all nature!.... baby dust to all of you

[April162010]

I am done with IVF ( and broke...lol)  this is a doctor i sow but i thoug is too cheap so i didnt trust him and i went to the "harvard" midtown manhatthan -spa office and super expensive..guess what?.... negative 2 times..so
to everybody  its IVF but still nature 90% to the embryo to attach...

dont get discourage...there are so many things in life to do!

[jamaicababy]

Thanks unfortunately i don't live in the US and it is very expensive here...

[April162010]

Being there..twice negative but I am ok now
you will get over and if you money wise  can try again....check this doctor in queens- NY is very inexpensive  

http://www.newyorkfertility.com/

[jamaicababy]

Hi all i too got a negative today... very very depressed!

[Redhenful]

So sorry... :o(

[mhv]

I am sorry to hear about your bfn.  I know all to well the pain it causes.  I hope you do not give up any try again.  We all deserve to be mom's someday.  I am sooooo sorry!  I hope your RE has a new plan for next time : )

[10_07]

I am sorry you didn't get your bfp this time round. I know all too well how that feels. Hugs!

[schroederheather]

I am so sorry to hear about the BFN!

[Roborshunice]

Me too i have to call when my Aunt Flo come

[Roborshunice]

My infertility is due to tubligation 6 years ago

[Kricket212]

I am so sorry you had a Neg.  I know it's a horrible feeling after the time spent on preparing our bodies.  I pray that you have success soon.

[zsezse13]

im so sorry! i don't know what i could say that would really be comforting @ this moment.. if u need somebody to talk to u can message me anytime. maybe the dr will have more answers for you? do they not know whats the issue? if u don't mind me asking, did u get an SSH (saline sonohystogram) done? or an HSG?