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494640 tn?1262737989

my dh ex girlfreind has found out were struggling she is being so cruel

she has found out from his x sister in law we lost our baby and were struggling and she is messaging me saying oh its such a shame haha i could of carried his baby its making me so depressed just need a bit of a pic me up of u lot xxxx
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494640 tn?1262737989
its his sister in law luckily lol i still havent grived for my baby i think i need to because its all getting on top of me now and the worst thing to have when u are trying for a baby is STRESS i hope it happens soon!!!! i will then have everything gorge man gorge home gorge baby=family a gorge one who needs scum like her!!!!
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I am sorry she has  to be like that. You know what dont bother texting her back, as much as you want to ring her neck ignore her dont give her the satisfication of her feeding into you. I know how that is and as much as you would want to give her a good punch, people like that I have no time for, she is a loser and is non or her business losing a baby as much of us here worked so hard to get where we are and then we lose it is not only emotional and physically exausting but added stress as well. I hope you can just try and let it go and ignore her. Dont feed into her texts and his sister shouldnt of been going back and feeding into her either.. Do you best which I know its better said then done.  
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562884 tn?1279632334
It just shows her ignorance, People like that don't deserve a reply, ignore her, it will bother her more if you just pretend like you didn't even get it! Good luck honey, I hope things turn around for you!
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494640 tn?1262737989
thanx its killing me as if i dont feel worthless enuf ay! i dont no some people how can they be so cruel its like my escape on here were i can let it out my gourgous dh is being so supportive she is so jelous she is a bit younger than us to were 21 she is only 19 and boy it shows i was bombarded yesterday with cruel messages yesterday she has a child thankgod not my dh's ui thinks thats why she is jelous because he wants me lol !but she dont no who the dad is what a laugh she dont deserve to be a mom!
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501096 tn?1320874932
You poor thing!  She should be ashamed of herself!  Just ignore her and be the bigger person.  I am so sorry for your loss--I've lost 2 and it is painful enough w/o someone treating you that way!
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494640 tn?1262737989
thnks you lot i love ya all so much just dont understand some people so sick eh??


thankx
xx
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582963 tn?1483452520
awww girl its okay and the h**l with her you are going to get blessed and remember what goes around comes around.........remember she has a child as well.how could she say such a thing.......................people like that makes me so pissed.  Keep your head up and dont worry bout her!  Yall are going to have another baby and maybe the next time it will be twins (how she like that)  luv you girl and let her be ur rock you climb over to get what you deserve which is the best!!!!!!!!!!
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494640 tn?1262737989
she got a kid not with him im glad and she is saying a lot more thing so horrible
im so down xxxxx
thankx girlies
u lot get me thru it xx
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What a b****!  Just know that she is just jealous that you got him.  I am so sorry you have to deal with someone like that.  Just remember that she isn't worth your time to get upset about.  People like that are worthless.
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159063 tn?1247272817
oh my.. what an idiot she is. do not get down to her level, she is jealous you got him. I am sorry you have to go thru this
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392430 tn?1382904781
Wow I wish I was allowed to say certain words here...I know it is easy to say and hard to do but ignore that loser. She is aiming at a sore spot and poking at it...not a fair fight in my opinion. (((Hugs)))

There is no reason for you to have to deal with that at all.
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102073 tn?1309549099
People like that (your dh's ex-girlfriend) aren't worth to talk about. I know it is easier said that done, but ignore her, she is just being an inmature, dumb person. NO MATTER WHAT, you never feel happy about other peoples struggles and difficulties, so she's defenetly not worth to talk about or even think about.

Hope you feel better soon! :o)
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