is there something wrong with me???

[hansy]

right me and bf are not trying for a baby, but have had unprotected sex quite alot and i can not get pregnant>> what the hell ???

[hansy]

i am not trying for a baby , lets get that 1 straight,

iv had girls pm me because there too scared to talk about the same prob they have as me on this forum  because of the way ur talking

[treazzure007]

please dont tell me you're trying to get pregnant by the same guy you cant even say "i love you and love being around you to".  who would do this?

my husband just said that if you cant tell a guy that and he doesnt say that to you, it's b/c he doesnt feel that way about you and you know it.  
dont try to bring a baby into a relationship like this.  you are young and there will be plenty of time to have children, just get everything right for yourself and with a man first

[treazzure007]

please dont tell me you're trying to get pregnant by the same guy you cant even say "i love you and love being around you to".  who would do this?

my husband just said that if you cant tell a guy that and he doesnt say that to you, it's b/c he doesnt feel that way about you and you know it.  
dont try to bring a baby into a relationship like this.  you are young and there will be plenty of time to have children, just get everything right for yourself and with a man first

[rene67]

You are right, we should all be able to say what we want here.  But the "judging" has nothing about you being a teenager, just hard to understand why you are worried that you are not getting pregnant when you are not trying for a baby.  Maybe if you explain a bit more we'd understand.  

I honestly hope you are doing OK and can resolve whatever issue is affecting you.

[hansy]

right sorry guys. but no where on this forum does it say i cant tell u my problem, eveyone 1 is entitled to say their piece on here. jus because im a tennager dont mean u can judge us.

[rene67]

Sounds like you are hoping to get pregnant, why are you having unprotected sex and wondering how come I'm not pregnant?  Kinda weird don't you think?  

Anyways, sorry to be harsh.  This forum is for women that are trying to get pregnant/have a baby but are having problems.  Its hard for some of us to hear about those acting so casual about conception.  Yes, its possible you or your bf have a fertility issue or just may be you are not quite hitting the right time.  But if you are not trying for a baby then get some protection.  If you're worried about future fertility, see a OB for a checkup.

[anne72]

I'm kind of confused!
1. Why aren't you having protected sex?
2. Why are you worried because your not getting pregnant?

I agree with wanting 4#1 your should be on bc or using a condom

[wanting4#1]

If you aren't trying to get pregnant, then what are you complaining about? Count your blessings that you haven't had an unplanned pregnancy - start using protection or stop having sex - the last thing anyone on this forum wants to hear about is a teenager 'accidently' having sex and getting pregnant. (I don't believe in anyone getting accidently pregnant since EVERYONE knows how to get pregnant!!)

Go to your OB and get birth control pills or use a condom!

[hansy]

well at some times we have on my ovulation time. its just realy weird, kind of worries me that it hasnt happened yet.

[tweety380]

Are you trying unprotected sex around ovulation time? Try to track your ovulation time by charting - or checking you cervical fluid. By books- at an average women ovulates around day 14 of her cycle. but then every person and every cycle can be different.

Good luck!