Hpt BFN 12p3dt still possible for BFP?

Question

I made the mistake and caved yesterday and did a HPT which was BFN. I am somewhat prepared for a negative beta tomorrow (14dpt 3d IVF) but still trying to hold out hope since I have read so many posts of people getting neg hpt the day of beta and still BFP. I am so scared it didnt work and we cant afford another cycle. Is there any chance?

mhv · Accepted Answer

Some ladies haven't received their BFP until their Beta... there is always hope!  and remember... you are pupo...pregnant until proven otherwise. 
 I hope you get the wonderful news you are looking for! : )  We are going to start a refund program w/donor eggs... 100% refundable... we had tried another donor, but eggs weren't the best.  

Best of luck to you my friend!

WillJakePlusOne · Answer

I feel bad for you too vainkdgurl - it is so hard.  Like you both, I caved and did a test yesterday, which was 8dpt for me.  Big fat negative.  Worst part is that my boobs aren't sore any more, and no more nausea, and I feel like I am getting AF. So even though DH wants me to test again on Wednesday (Saturday the 13th is my Beta test) I think it will just upset me further.

Like you vainkdgurl, our insurance for the meds ran out. We do get one more cycle covered by the government but I missed so much work, and it was so stressful. Plus I am 38...maybe just a sign to give up.

I have two baby showers coming up; I would rather go get teeth pulled without freezing, it is less painful.

Hang in everyone, and baby dust to all of you who are still getting that plus sign. Wishing BFP for everyone for an earlier Christmas present...

jaclyng · Answer

AWWW I feel so bad!!!! There are some companies that you can finance your IVF cycle!!! here is one: http://arcfertility.com/  They have a money back thing if it doesn't work...def look into it! It makes it affordable!!! I caved today also and took a hpt. It said negative also. I'm very very upset and have kinda lost hope. It's only day 9, but I know people who have gotten a positive on day 7 :( I called and spoke to the nurse before and she told me that it wont show this early on a urine test....sooo i await the dreaded beta test Friday. Keep your chin up and look into this $$ program!!!!

Kricket212 · Answer

I am sorry to hear this. Is there anyway you can come up with something?  Maybe take out a loan? Don't give up!!!!!!!!!!  My fertility office gives out grants, maybe you can find something like that near you.  

Best Wishes to you!!

Redhenful · Answer

I'm so sorry..

vainkdgurl · Answer

As I feared it was a BFN. Even more devistating, I think, because we cant afford another cycle. Insurance has a lifetime benefit wich was barely enough for 1 cycle (such a tease, I would rather no coverage then only once on a procedure that on average requires multiple attempts) and we in no way can afford out of pocket. So unless we hit the lottery, get a huge inheritance, or find a generous donor it wont happen. :'(

I am past the point of tears and just kind of numb right now. Makes it worse that I know way too many pregnant people.

Kricket212 · Answer

How did your BT go?

happynifer · Answer

less likely, but always possible.
good luck to you!

Kricket212 · Answer

Sending you lots of luck on your test....hang in there
Sending you lots of baby dust!!

I am with MHV & will also be doing DE soon.  I have first RE on 11/8

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