I haven't been in the same situation but I'd split the difference and go at nine months but a year if you want to try a VBAC.
My son is 10 years now and I would like to try again for another baby. I am 35 years old and my doctor says I'm a good candidate now. Any suggestions you can provide is helpful. Should I just go to a high risk physician.
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I am sorry for your loss. I lost my son at 12wks due to the same thing. If the dr says 6-12mos. I don't see any reason not to start trying at 6mos. It may still take a few months of trying to conceive again. I wish you the very best :)
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