I give up

[lilbit0922]

Well everyone I am giving up, I know I said this before but I am serious!! I can't get pregnant and don't think I can have any kids!! Good bye n good night guys good luck to everyone

[Swtshae]

Don't give up!!! I know how stressful trying to conceive can be... I've been trying for 21 months and still no baby. I do think the best thing is try to relax and not let it consume you. Also, be sure you're taking the right steps to get pregnant like having sex when you're fertile. But don't give up. Good luck and I hope you get your BFP very soon...

[Leatha]

I think that you have the right idea about taking a break and just chilling.  TTC is very draining especially when it seems every waking moment you are consumed by it (well that's how it is for me anyways).

It took me 4 years to the month to have my second child.  I've been poked, prodded and otherwise been in situations that I thought I would never have to go through.  You do what you need to do to become a mother.  

But yes, take a break, and like trying43 said maybe see a different Dr. Just always know that this great group of people are here to welcome you back anytime you need it.  Good luck.

[trying43]

I tried off an on from age 33 and finally got pg with number 3 at age 36!  I have also had 2 m/cs.  Maybe you need to see another dr.  Perhaps a fresh set of eyes can shed light on what the issue is.  I went through 4 drs before I found the right one.  Best of luck to you.

[robin85]

Wow just 7 months and you were pregnant before ... Iam in my almost 2 years 3ivf and was never pregnant I would feel blessed at least to have gotten pregnant

[crstl11]

When I gave up is when I got pregnant both times...I think the stress of trying is what henders people. Good luck

[Sasha80]

I think they say that on average it takes 6-12 months to conceive.  Not sure if it's true.  

[lilbit0922]

I think I am gonna take a break and just let my body rest

[MissKellee]

Relax, breathe, talk to your doctor. ask for Clomid. (however its spelt) I got pregnant when i totally least expected it...my bf and i had sex two weeks straight during xmas time, and nothing happened....(i went back into the army) and then february 29th last year i came back and we did the deed EVERY day and i actually didnt get pregnant until April 12th (concieved) itll happen when you least expect it

[JewelzD]

you know it may be best you take a break clear your head and start again in a few months but in the mean time have tons of fun with hubby as long as your not thinking make a baby make a baby every time u have sex your wish may come true

[lilbit0922]

Well I have been trying for 7 months since I lost my first pregnancy

[FirstTymeMommii]

Stop trying and just kick back and enjoy your intimate moments. Not only does it relax your body and mind but it can increase your chances. Just enjoy you two for a while. Couldn't hurt.

[virgomami2]

I had my first at 15 I'm 29 now it took 13 years for baby number 2 I took no birth control for 12 of those 13 it will happen when it's supposed to happen

[Sasha80]

How long have you been trying for?  Don't give up!  It took 17 months for my hubby and I to conceive our first.  Just relax and let it happen.  Stop for a couple of months...don't think about it and one night have fun.  We ended up getting drunk after taking a ttc break and boom.....it happened.  I wish you all the best!

[Toriiee]

i think yu should juss relax nd not stress over it... mby dnt try soo much that way yur hopes dnt keep goin up fur nuthing... some people try nd try nd try nd get nuthing but once they take a step back nd relax nd stop trying all the time nd stop worrying so much bout getting pregnant is wen they do get pregnant.... good luck to yu :)