I recently went to the hospital due to heavy bleeding and found out that I needed a blood transfusion (2 units)
This excessive bleeding has been going on off and on for years and I have just dealt with it and my primary doctor had given me iron supplements. Anyway, after an exam this gynocologist told me that my uterus was huge, equivelant to a 5 month fetus. Well, I feel fine. He has told me I need an hysterectomy, which sent me into tears because I have not yet had a child and still want to have a baby. I am 47 years and have not been married. I was very insulted by his statements and will place a complaint with the hospital. He talked to me as if it was stupid that I would still want a child and told me, "You should have thought of that earlier", I was undone, could not believe it. Well, my siblings asked me to find out if it was possible to have my eggs frozen and allow my sister to carry my child, well when I asked that he told me that he doubted that any fertility organization would consider me. "You're 47 years old!" (He said smirkingly. I was soooo hurt and in tears. More background is that I do have fibroids and he said it was almost impossible for me to become pregnant, and if I did I probably couldn't carry it. I told him I have friends that have this same problem and have several children. With this said, I guess my question is, Is it possible for me to have my eggs frozen, and also is it necessary for me to have a hysterectomy. He wants me to make a decision next week and is trying to get me to schedule the procedure, but I don't feel comfortable with him and I know that if I do, he will NOT do the procedure. I am scheduling an appointment with a female gynocologist, I am sure he may be a good doctor, but I feel that he needs to take a class in treating his patients with respect and being sensitive to my needs.