i sent you a myspace message about my doc appointment:)
well my chart is getting me frustrated. my temps went way down yesterday and then today went back up but still getting neg opk. and no O pains yet. i have a doctors appointment at 1245 cst so i will let you know as soon as i get home and i wasnt able to BD till last night. (kids wouldnt cooperate) so i hope i didnt miss it if i have already Oed
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Hey - how is your chart looking? Getting closer to Oing?
happy new year to you too!!!!
Nope - no vagina vacations that I know of :) At least mine hasn't gone on vacation - that I know of :) Happy New Year!!!
i would ask them to do the test. that may be the problem i dont hink i have had it done either. i will ask about it when i go in an wend. maybe its not needed:) tell your uterus to quite being so mean and let those swimmers in:) now why is a doctors office closed more then one day after a holiday. as far as i know vaginas dont take a vacation do they?:)
They never even mentioned a post coital test. It very well could be my mean uterus fighting back :) HAHAHAAHAAHHAHAHAHHAHA!!! I am waiting for the other RE to call me back to see when they could get me in. I should hear back before Friday. They are off until Thursday.
have you had the post coital test done? where they want you to come in after having sex to see if you cervical fluid is killing off his sperm? i would have that done before IUI it might not me needed. its amazing what a doc will charge. and half of the time i think that i know more then the docs. i think that you have every right to b-i-t-c-h and i am hear to listen and rant and rave with you:)
Thanks for "grrrrr" ing with me :) You always help make me smile!! Now I am kicking myself for not getting my OB to prescribe JUST ONE MORE MONTH of clomid. Should have done it but thought there was no reason with me having the HSG and all. Kicking myself in the butt right now :)
The Bart and Homer thing is EXACTLY how I pictured it except I saw the woman's head actually POP! Hee hee.
Then the nurse says "Well, we will get you straight next month and then we can follow that with the IUI the next month". I was so pissed that I said "we will see - I will make that decision when we get there". I do not understand why they are pushing for the IUI. DH sperm is great and ALL of my tests came back perfect. So, besides the PCOS, there should be NO reason why I can't get preggo unless there is a tube problem....WHICH I WOULD HAVE KNOWN BY NOW IF THE NURSE WASN'T SO STUPID!!! She is like 100 years old and from NY. Sorry I am still a bit peeved.I think I may find a different clinic. I am just so mad at them I don't think I can look her in the face again. I might hit her old ***.
All I need is something that will get me to ovulate. I think they are just out to make money cuz they make about $1500 for every IUI. I have to pay about $500 for each IUI. But then again, what if that is the only way to get pregnant? Will it make it faster? Up the chance? Oh hell, I am so mad I don't even want to think about it. I just hope I O this month on my own.....
Sorry to rant and rave, I ***** alot, huh? :) Thanks for listening!!! You have been a godsend.
OMG i cant believe that!!! what in the hell were they thinking!!! i am so mad for you. but i am kinds giggling cause i am invsioning Homer and Bart Simpson when the dad strangles the son. I wish you had gone and i was there to watch that would be a great show:) sometimes i think that the nurses that docs hire arefresh out of nursing school and ahve no clue what is going on or they didnt even go to school. But i am SOOOO sorry that this is happening to you. i understand the money thing we will probably make 60 grand this year but we are is such debt that it is more like what you make. so we feel your pain i had to come up with a grand before they would start any treatment. it works like an account though everything i get done gets taken out of the money until its wrung dry!! But i am sure you will figure out something and get it done:) but i guess you dont have to worry about if you have oed or not.
Again i am so sorry that really blows...grrrrrr!
I am ready to KILL SOMEONE!!!!! That stupid flippin nurse screwed up! She didn't tell me to stop taking the metformin - THAT SHE JUST PUT ME ON LESS THAN A WEEK AGO!!!!- 2 days in advance before the HSG. It can cause kidney infections if you don't stop it - blah blah blah....So this month is a bust. She kept apologizing and all I kept seeing in my head was me squeezing her freakin neck til her damn head popped off!!! I am sooooo PISSED right now. SHe better be lucky I wasn't driving all the way down there when she called or I would have kept driving and kicked her ***!!!! So, this month is a bust and now I have to wait ANOTHER flippin month!!! OMG!!! I am so mad. Does she not realize how scared I was - now I have to wait ANOTHER month and obsess over it for 30+ days. UGH - I just can't explain how mad I am right now!!! (Though I think you get a pretty good idea!!!)
On top of that. When I go in Feb to have it done, I have to pay my flippin deductible in full - PLUS 30% - That's going to be like $400. I am a teacher - I don't make **** and then half of what I make goes towards insurance and taxes!! I barely make 15-18 grand after that! Where the hell am I supposed to get $400 extra dollars. That's why I was so happy to get it done on the 31st of dec. My ded. is already paid for the year. New ded. starts over tomorrow. Ugh - insult to injury. Ok - I am done ranting and raving....
You are the best!! I need all the prayer I can get. I am TOTALLY FREAKING OUT!!! I don't know why I am so scared.... My appt is in Charleston (about 2.5 hrs away) and I have to be there at 3pm (ugh on News years eve - god this SUCKS SOOOOO bad!!) so I am hoping to be back by 7pm or so. I hope I get to email you and tell you everything is ok!!!! I don't think I can take any more disappointment with the baby making thing.....Keep your fngers crossed (that it won't hurt and also that my tubes are clear!!)
what time is you HSG tomorrow? when will you be home? i cant wait to hear that everything is ok. good luck if i dont talk to you before then. i dont pray that often but i will say a prayer for you before i go to bed tonight:)
I know. I got preggo in 3 months at 19 when I first got married and could barely take care of myself. Now my head is on straight and everything is perfect and no baby ...... Ugh
yeah, what is up with that. i got pregnant just fine at 18 why cant i get pregnant now that i am married?
I know we will get preggo, just never happens when we want to :)
i know EXACTLY what you mean *****sniff sniff*** thanks:) lolwe will get preggo soon enough.
me too! It is so great to have you going through the same **** I am :) Well, I am not glad you aren't getting preggo - oh hell, you know what I mean :)
yeah welcome back:) sure missed ya..lol..
i just sent you a myspace message cause i couldnt sign onto medhelp. but now i can so HI..lol
yeah who knows.... It would be a great b-day present. its a good idea to exhaust all your options before going with the more invasive stuff. if we dont get pregnant this month i think the doc will want to go on to iui so i hope we get preg this month. but i guess we will see:) i have heard that preseed is great and many women swear by it. but then there are some that say not to use it because it gives them too much "juice" and the spermies cant swim through it all so if you are naturally lubed enough then i would suggest not using it.
I am praying - I keep reading that people sometimes get preggo right after the HSG, so maybe it will be worth it. My birthday is in Feb so maybe I will get a great bday present? Who knows. According to the RE, my hubby should be able to look at me and get me pregnant :) So, we obviously know it is me :(
Oh I hope they give you the HCG shot - then you know when the eggies will pop and you can time everything accordingly. YAY!!!
Weirdly enough I am not too disappointed that I am not on meds this month - well besides the metformin I just started - to get me preggo. My husband and I really want to try everything else before going to IUI's. I have the BBT, fertility monitor (which is already driving me nuts), and the metformin now. I haven't started that spray that the weird pharmasist - still feel like an idiot for buying it but I said I would try anything and I will. :) Think I will buy Pre-seed if I don't get preggo this month. Supposed to be a great lube that is safe and actually seems to pH balance everything and give them some swimming juice :) Who knows.....