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8096155 tn?1401890611

So heart broken

Once again my hopes got shut down.  My period came yesterday :(. I am so bummed and depressed I feel like I am never going to get my wish. I hate this I feel like crawling into a ball and just crying.  I don't know how much more I can take. I am going to call my gyno some time next week and see what my next step is. Even though I feel like giving up. Not so sure what to do anymore I am so heart broken and don't feel like going on. Ughhhh!!!!
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Don't give up! I'm in the same boats we will all get our rainbow baby!  Prayers to you all and if you could keep me in yours! ♥
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8096155 tn?1401890611
Thanks everybody.  They always say third times a charm so I pray and hope it is for us.
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Feel sorry for u Hun hope it happens for u real soon, I've been trying for over a year now and I spoke to my gp who said it's normal to not conceive in first two years for a lot of people and after that is when they take it into consideration. Speak to ur gp and hope it works out for U Hun. Good luck
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1756475 tn?1330538713
Don't give up yet.  It will happen.  The average is 3 rounds so maybe the next one will be your round.   if that doesn't work I'd go to the fertility specialist and not just your OB.  they have more dealings with fertility issues and can help you.
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I understand how you feel. It is very hard to deal with it every month when your period comes. My husband and I have been trying for 5 years with 8 miscarriages and 1 tubal pregnancy. It is hard to be positive and believe it will happen. I have and am in the same boat. I am at the point that I don't know what else to do. All the tests come back normal for both of us.

Just remember to not stress about it because that makes it worse and stress can cause fertility issues.
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Wat is iui
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Hi, Im new to this forum. Just 4 years ago I was in your position. My husband and I tried for almost 3 years when we went to a fertility specialist. I was on clomid but it didnt take because i had other issues. In my case i didnt need hormones.  There were other reasons I wasnt getting pregnant and the fertility DR was able to identify my issues and treat me accordingly.  After a couple of months of treatment I was able to get pregnant and give birth to a beautiful baby girl. I know several women that have had severe fertility issues and against all odds have given birth. The point is,  please do not give up hope and try to not stress about it. EASIER SAID THEN DONE!  Good lucck to all of you.
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7634030 tn?1407358368
I felt the same way.  Some ppl dont deserve to breed but they hv kid after kid.  But now, after i had my surgery, i made peace with the possibility of not having my own kid.  I am still trying tho.  Fertility specialist said i have a better chance getting pregnant now with just one tube.  I am hopeful but not that hopeful if you know what i mean.  After going through disappointment after disappointment, i am just getting numb to it.  Hv a plan B.  Focus on something that you can hv control on.  Getting pregnant is something beyond our control and when its not happening, it is very devastating.
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8096155 tn?1401890611
It's so hard not to want to give up. I hate this I feel like god doesn't want us to have a baby. Hurts even more when there are people out there who can't even take care of their kids but keep having more. There's people out there who are just plain nasty to their kids and god let's them have more. WHY I JUST DON'T GET IT!!!!! I have been trying for 2 and half years when is it my time!!!!
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7634030 tn?1407358368
I went 10 rounds of Clomid with one iui.  And im still not pregnant.  I know the feeling.  Try again. Its always hard when Af came knocking on the first 2nd day.  But once it is over you will be like.  Let's try again for this mth.  See a diff doc if you hv too.  Gynae is not really as attentive.  
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I'm so sorry :(
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9561708 tn?1406908841
Just never give up...
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Never give up hope , my psrtner and I have been trying for 2 years ,tests for me so far have been all normal , im 38, so never give up on your dream x
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8096155 tn?1401890611
This was my second round of clomid and it didn't work.  I pray all tge time it just doesn't seem to help anymore :(.
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I tried clomid today I got my period. Last year it worked but had miscarriage n this time not worked
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7634030 tn?1407358368
Btw.  Hv you given a thought to try iui.  If you do, try the next cycle with clomid.  
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7634030 tn?1407358368
So sorry to hear that.  Give it another try.  After 3 tries then, i suggest you go look into seeing a fertility specialist.  They will do a very thorough work up with you.  They will asked you every details and from there they will suggest what treatment will work best for u.  Good luck.  
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9561708 tn?1406908841
:( so sorry :( please don't lose you hope. Please I know how you feel,  I feel that way manytime, but dont lose you hope, you faith. Just continue to pray... I know you need to keep going,  keep try and be strong. Crying...sometime that help. To let go all we feel in this moment,  but remember God everything in control. PLEASE BE STRONG AND NEVE GIVE UP.
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Similar the case of mine
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9561708 tn?1406908841
:( so sorry :( please don't lose you hope. Please I know how you feel,  I feel that way manytime, but dont lose you hope, you faith. Just continue to pray... I know you need to keep going,  keep try and be strong. Crying...sometime that help. To let go all we feel in this moment,  but remember God everything in control. PLEASE BE STRONG AND NEVE GIVE UP.
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