may sound bad

[2timesmommy]

i ahve just found out today that my 7wks 5days is not a viable pregnancy no heart beat and stop growing at 6wks 3 days.  i have to get a d&c .  nthis is what might sound bad since i am already concerned about starting another pregnancy i really want to add on to beautiful family with another baby.  how long do i have to wait till my husband and i try again after a d&c and is it the same as a live birth u are most likely tom get pregnant after you have ababy.  is it easier to concieve after a miscarriage?  i am hurting very badly thiis is my second pregnancy 1 miscarriage.  i could use the support and education.

[Babybaw4]

I do agree with everyone, If its meant to be with it will happen. I had a miscarriage at 8-weeks and since we are using donar sperm I wanted to know why. Well I finally received my genetics tests back and why I had miscarried is because during cell division the chromosomes didnt divide properly and I was just its a accidential thing and 98% of woman it happnes to end in miscarriage.. I had my D&C on Sept 12 and waiting on 2-good cycles them will keep trying.. Did she ever send to genetics to see why that had happened?

[jennyfer976]

I am so sorry for your mc. I think if you wait till next cycle you should be ok to start trying again. Did they give you any indication that the pregnancy was not viable before 7 weeks? Like did you have low hcg or anything first? You've got me worried....im 6 weeks along. So far all hcg numbers have been good and i go for the 1st u/s thursday this week but i am a nervous wreck!!

[kikicoates78]

I think as soon as you are ready emotionally, why not start, if your body isn't ready it won't happen, I agree with wanting... It's in Gods hands Good Luck.

[wanting4#1]

I am sorry for your loss and for a lot of women, the way to deal with it is to start looking forward, so don't feel bad about asking!

I had a mc at 8 weeks and had to have a D&C - I was advised to wait 3 full cycles (not including the mc cycle).  I think that every doctor is different in their advice!

I just had a mc last cycle and because it happened so early in the pregnancy, I am trying again this cycle. My OB recommended not trying this cycle, but my thought was that this is ALL in God's hands, so He'll see fit to protect me!

Good luck to you!

[murd0ck]

I'm so sorry about your m/c. I had one in January and although I didn't have a d&c we started trying after about 1 and 1/2 or 2 months. I had to wait for my cycles to become regular again. I'd like to think it kick starts your body and makes it easier to become pregnant again. Good luck to you and this is a great place for support =)