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329994 tn?1301663248

Uninformed people!

Is there anyone else out here that is just plain tired (literally) of everyone around you not understanding how you feel? That to get out of bed each day is a miracle, much less keep up with cooking, cleaning, errands, etc. Not to mention anyone with a job dealing with CFS! I just wish someone would tell me once in a while, you are doing great, so proud of you for not letting Fibro and CFS get you completely down!! I could stay in bed all day....
just needing to vent and I know on here, you will understand!!

Working on getting better and finding better ways to help me, just having a down day!
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681148 tn?1437661591
Yes, I get tired of hearing people who are uninformed give me advice.  It's like they think they know what will solve the problem when they haven't got the first clue.
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1567353 tn?1358876855
It really makes me mad 'cause I'm 17, so doctors take me even less seriously. They don't listen to me, and mostly disregard everything I say because I'm a kid and can't know what I'm talking about. And they think I'm being dramatic and exaggerating my pain, when I'm not!
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Nope, not me, I don't need understanding, or affirmation that I am doing a great job from anyone BUT MYSELF....as long as I know I am doing the best I can, I don't need anyone's opinion on me. I don't have to justify why I can't do things when I am just not up to it or physically can't, nor do I need to explain my medical issues with anyone I don't want explain them too.

I know I am doing the best I can, so that is all that matters to me....
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1621810 tn?1300119023
YES!!! I know EXACTLY what u mean!!! It's so horrible! I haven't been diagnosed with CFS, But I have looked into it, and am pretty positive that I have it! However, they quit the research on it, due to funding...so therefore, they diagnose you with something else, like LUPUS, or GLUMERULOSCLEROSIS, ( which is b/c I have a kidney disease also ). But those diagnosis's don't cover the fatigue, dizzy spells, flu like symptoms, tiredness, weakness, etc.
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