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A bunch of coincidences or HIV? Need Help

One year ago I made the mistake of having unprotected sex during a one night stand. The was the only time I ever had a random partner. Now one year later I am starting to worry. Recently my girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time (with a condom) we had been doing everything else but sex for months, but about a month after sex she got a fever. And I noticed my tongue has a white coating on it at the same time. Now my girlfriend is sick again and has lost a little bit of weight. I am really worried, and in the process of scheduling a test but i need to know what to expect before I go. I am unsure of the other girl's status but I have found out she's had multiple partners. I am worried because my girlfriend is showing all the symptoms.

Am I at a high risk, do you think I have contracted the virus?
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Thanks for posting back, yes it was vaginal. Getting tested asap. Thanks again, appreciate your help
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Your gf never had a risk to start with. Protected sex is not a risk and nor is masterbation and oral sex.

Test to know your status.
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1542597 tn?1294843160
U had a risk.as doctors say in this website your risk of one time vaginal intercourse(was it vaginal?) is 1 in 2000 if the girl was infected,most people are not.but a risk is a risk.symptoms means nothing when it comes to HIV.go and get tested you are far behind the window period.the test will tell you the truth.expect it to be negative.
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