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uncircumsized possibe exposure

To Teak and other senior members,

I went to a "modeling studio/strip bar" and I finger (clitoris stimulation and finger penetration) the dancer's vagina for about 1 minuet.  

My  concern is I put on a condom after fingering the dancer and as I roll the condom on my penis I touch the inner part of the condom.  My concern is that I am uncircumcised and I am afraid the secretion might come in contact with my underpart of the foreskin or the urethra.  I have read many NO RISK on others who have asked the same question but I didn't see any situations like my "uncircumcised" question.  

After I put on the condom the dancer gave me a hand-job.  I am afraid she might have rubbed the virus into the  mucus membrane.

I want to say the time from the fingering and putting on the condom is appox. 30 sec.  I know there is not much  secretion on my hand because of the drying time (time to open the condom package etc..).  But I remember her vagina  was very wet and I don't want to take any chances.        

Thank you, please let me know where I stand.  Test for HIV?
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277836 tn?1359666174
youve been told dude
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Anyone else? Teak...Lizzie Lou....Please.....
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OK.  I will not go crazy over this.

Anyone else who would like to give me comfort regarding my situation?

Should I get a test done just to make sure?  At 6 week.

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277836 tn?1359666174
You are just trying to read into this too much there is no need for me to advise you on how I know for sure
Protection is one reason why the other is she probably didnt have hiv and your guilt is just driven you crazy so werid thoughts are in your head like
I know she did have hiv
I will be the first to get hiv from using protection
I cant face my fears
Please god dont let me have hiv
You get my point I am tryin g to help you please except what I have told you ok
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I will stay away from activities like this, FOR SURE!!!!

Can you go a little more in detail why this is NO RISK at all.  It will realllly help me get over this crazy fear...

Thank you my friend..  God Bless..
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277836 tn?1359666174
You had no risk at all here time for you to get on with life and enjoy
If you are going to worry so much then dont do things like this it will ALWAYS drive you crazy
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Thank you for the comment.  So you are saying I can take comfort in the time that I have the vaginal secretion and applying the condom (+ or - 30 sec.), the possibility of the HIV virus in the secretion would be non-transmission risk?  

I am just paranoid about the fact I am uncircumcised and that will increase my virus exposure.  

Anyone else that can give me more comments...PLEASE....
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541093 tn?1224670896
It was protected... No virus transmission risk... Virus can not survive in air or enviornmental surface... Yes, it is true that circumcised men are on lower risk of contracting the virus but this doesn't mean they are not at risk at all... There are tons of studies available on net for this...
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