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Am I infected?

dear Doctor,
First of all sorry for my bad english, Im an indian, married man and having a kid. Recently i met a lady who lives in another state in india thru a dating site. And I met her in person 3 months ago. As it was our initial meeting i didnt care about the precautions. Later we had done oral sex each other. And then she inserted my penis in her vagina and i was not ok with that, but i had no option to get a condom in that occasion, so the intercourse came to its end without ejaculation. After that i came to know that she had sexual relationship with different people. And her hiv status was unknown. After coming back from that place, i had unprotected sex with my wife many times.  It is monsoon here in our place and everyone have cold in this time. My wife is a lecturer by profession and her colleage has severe fever these days and she used to travel along with that lady. My concersn is that she got severe throat pain and body ache from last 2 days. Also she got few tiny dark brown coloured rashes on her breats area few days ago. I heard that the risk of geting hiv without ejaculation is very less. Pls advice... Thank you...
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You need to test not only for HIV but STDs.
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1448678 tn?1285479840
     Who says HIV can't be transmitted if theres no ejaculation? Looks like Someones driving a phruphy about the whole bizzo.

     You certainly carry a very high risk of having contracted HIV with whatever you did. Unprotected sex with unknown individuals especially those who are the easy targets for SEX is a very dangerous act.

    I suggest you should stop judging your HIV status by the symptoms and get tested @ 3 months or later.Thats the only resolve to all your worries.


Good Luck...
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