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Am I risk for HIV or other STD help me?

Hello I 25 year young guy 6 months before I had a sex with a women with condom, I touched her breast by my tongue and i kissed her after last minute i touched her vagina by tongue for a second it was salty. After three days i was affected by mouth ulcer. after three months i had a sex with another women.This time i insert my penis into her mouth with condom. After a week two small mild red patches are appear on the inside head of my penis later i consult a doctor he was given some tablets it was cure but not fully( that two patches are still there). I asked him is it possible to get HIV infection he told yes. I am worrying about this. Now a days i feel rashes are appear on my body some time. some minor small bumps are appear above (back hip) my buttocks and my thigh (direct to the genital). And my urine get some smell (earlier days not like that). Kindly help is it possible to get HIV infection or other STD? really worrying about this kindly help me?
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this is my last question the women touched my testicle with her tongue is it possible to transmit HIV?
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How can it be related to HIV and you never had an exposure?
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sorry for the disturbance . those symptoms described is it related to HIV ?kindly answer me
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This forum is HIV specific. If you have concerns about your signs and symptoms see your doctor.
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Thanks teak . Your answers make me free but in my penis some red circle and patches 3 places are appear even it is  not itchy. it is look like reddish in color. kindly help me . what kind of symptom it be. i consult a doctor he given some tablet. the redness are disappear not fully . it is become mild red . after one month again the same place these are appear .kindly help me
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You aren't having any symptoms related to HIV, you've never had an exposure.
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Thanks for your kind explanation. Recent days some redness are appear in my gums below the tongue. while brushing i feel pain. some wounds also appear on upper gums outer portion. My teeth impression also appear on my lower lip. it is look like red lines on my lip. When i closed my mouth i feel dry and my chin and lips are fitting with teeth. and my inner sides of the mouth some dots with redness are appear .it is because of the impression of the teeth. Kindly explain whether these are the symptoms of HIV or any kind of STD.

also when some one touch my body or a hard press make redness on my skin especially in chest and stomach area. even after wake up from sleep some redness are appear. I searched web for this symptoms it is because of HIV or any underling disease kindly answer me
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Thanks for your detailed explanation.Now I feel really free..
Thank u
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Not a single doctor describe vaginal kissing a risk ... Not on Medhelp.
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No incident HIV infections among MSM who practice exclusively oral sex.
Int Conf AIDS 2004 Jul 11-16; 15:(abstract no. WePpC2072)??Balls JE, Evans JL, Dilley J, Osmond D, Shiboski S, Shiboski C, Klausner J, McFarland W, Greenspan D, Page-Shafer K?University of California, San Francisco, San Francisco, United States

Oral transmission of HIV, reality or fiction? An update
J Campo1, MA Perea1, J del Romero2, J Cano1, V Hernando2, A Bascones1
Oral Diseases (2006) 12, 219–228

AIDS: Volume 16(17) 22 November 2002 pp 2350-2352
Risk of HIV infection attributable to oral sex among men who have sex with men and in the population of men who have sex with men

Page-Shafer, Kimberlya,b; Shiboski, Caroline Hb; Osmond, Dennis Hc; Dilley, Jamesd; McFarland, Willie; Shiboski, Steve Cc; Klausner, Jeffrey De; Balls, Joycea; Greenspan, Deborahb; Greenspan
Page-Shafer K, Veugelers PJ, Moss AR, Strathdee S, Kaldor JM, van Griensven GJ. Sexual risk behavior and risk factors for HIV-1 seroconversion in homosexual men participating in the Tricontinental Seroconverter Study, 1982-1994 [published erratum appears in Am J Epidemiol 1997 15 Dec; 146(12):1076]. Am J Epidemiol 1997, 146:531-542.

Studies which show the fallacy of relying on anecdotal evidence as opposed to carefully controlled study insofar as HIV transmission risk is concerned:

Jenicek M. "Clinical Case Reporting" in Evidence-Based Medicine. Oxford: Butterworth–Heinemann; 1999:117
Saltzman SP, Stoddard AM, McCusker J, Moon MW, Mayer KH. Reliability of self-reported sexual behavior risk factors for HIV infection in homosexual men. Public Health Rep. 1987 102(6):692–697.Nov–Dec;

Catania JA, Gibson DR, Chitwood DD, Coates TJ. Methodological problems in AIDS behavioral research: influences on measurement error and participation bias in studies of sexual behavior. Psychol Bull. 1990 Nov;108(3):339–362.

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex. The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way. Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk". There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Please educate yourself about the real risks. If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. " DR HANSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who believe that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..." DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA
"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." Dr. Hook
"The observation on thousands and thousands of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort)." DR HOOK
"I would not say your risk ,if he had HIV is "slim to none"- that's too high.  I would say they are effectively zero.  How much of his ejaculate or other genital  secretions you may have swallowed makes no difference.  EWH "
"As far as HIV is concerned, there is no known risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex on an infected partner, even if that person's genital secretions get into your eyes or if you swallow." Dr.Hook
HIV is not spread by oral sex, giving or receiving, even if sores, gum disease or blood is present
DR HOOK
The fact is that there are no cases in which HIV has been proven to be transmitted by oral sex, including fellatio..  EWH
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but the Here the doctor told kissing at vagina itself possible for transmission of HIV? so that i feel ?
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Wrong--oral sex is zero risk for HIV transmission.
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thanks but one doubt shed didn't used any condom i touched her vagina by my tongue . It is not a protected sex. is it possible to transmit HIV ? Because of this i 'm worrying
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you never had a risk.
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See your doctor if you are concerned. Your signs and symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.
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thanks for your reply but i feel some mild red and white patches on mouth upper palate and my skin is become red when some one touch even for press i worried about this because of hiv infection kindly help me ( Because i touched her vagina with my tongue for a second ) this is the reason for my worry? help me can i go for test ? is it possible to infect?
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You do not need to test over this specific situation.
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Hi rajan188,

From your description, you had 2 exposures, which are protected sex and receiving protected oral sex. These protect you against HIV.
You should not be concerned about HIV.
However, you can choose to be tested. Every sexually active person shall be tested for HIV and STDs from time to time.

Thanks.
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