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HIV risk?
Hello,
I am male and I had sex with older male I didn't know well. Only thing I have is that he told me he is healthy (twice) after sex but I tend to worry. Anal sex was protected but oral wasn't. However here are details of oral. At first I was mostly using my hand and kissing around and his pennis but not much, so basically my lips were only exposed. Room was shadowed, and in those conditions (it wasn't complete dark) I didn't see or smell anything suspicious. Then we had anal sex. After anal he wore condom down and I again started using my hand but there is probably my biggest risk: I put the pennis in my mouth and did three up and down fast moves though I tried not to really suck (sorry for language), it was still probably only region around my lips (inside I guess) exposed. After that I moved away and used my hand to ejaculate him. I have to say that I didn't notice any precum at any point during my exposures.
How risky is this? Three weeks later I had some problems with throat but honestly, it is not classic sore throat, Mostly located on left side and same problem I had earlier this year after flue and it want away, like it's some orl problem. Also on the right side a lymph node (or spit gland, not sure what it is) is a bit enlarged but since I am under stress it might have been enlarged even before sex. Problem is that because of stress I've been smoking quite a bit in the past month and drunk a lot of lemon juice and coca-cola, so it might have been due to that and constant weather changing.
Anyway thanks for help in advance!
I am male and I had sex with older male I didn't know well. Only thing I have is that he told me he is healthy (twice) after sex but I tend to worry. Anal sex was protected but oral wasn't. However here are details of oral. At first I was mostly using my hand and kissing around and his pennis but not much, so basically my lips were only exposed. Room was shadowed, and in those conditions (it wasn't complete dark) I didn't see or smell anything suspicious. Then we had anal sex. After anal he wore condom down and I again started using my hand but there is probably my biggest risk: I put the pennis in my mouth and did three up and down fast moves though I tried not to really suck (sorry for language), it was still probably only region around my lips (inside I guess) exposed. After that I moved away and used my hand to ejaculate him. I have to say that I didn't notice any precum at any point during my exposures.
How risky is this? Three weeks later I had some problems with throat but honestly, it is not classic sore throat, Mostly located on left side and same problem I had earlier this year after flue and it want away, like it's some orl problem. Also on the right side a lymph node (or spit gland, not sure what it is) is a bit enlarged but since I am under stress it might have been enlarged even before sex. Problem is that because of stress I've been smoking quite a bit in the past month and drunk a lot of lemon juice and coca-cola, so it might have been due to that and constant weather changing.
Anyway thanks for help in advance!
Post your question in the STD forum here on medhelp for expert advice.The std,s that come to mind might be chlamydia or herpes.
Ok, I am aware that unprotected anything is risk of some kind. But given all, how high is mine for other stds?
You never had a risk because your anal sex was protected without any condom failure and the unprotected oral sex,although not safe for other STD,s is not an issue for hiv transmission at all.Your safe from hiv infection,but test for other std,s.All the best.
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